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I crave ____ because I feel slightly empty without it / them…

So many things complete this sentance. A relationship. Friends. Attention. Talents. The first two are my biggest concerns. I am so desperate for any type of relationship I can get. I still have my standerds and my limits but they are slightly lowered each week, to be raised again by a few awsome girls who show a little intrest, but not enough to act upon. I’ve even done long distance relationships and they fill the void at least a little bit. And friends. As life progressed I lost them all. All but one. But regardless of what can fill the void, what is something else I can crave more attainable, or a way to stop craving altogether?

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

try to love yourself maybe. you, not your friendships.

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Duskbrood offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Look, until you learn to love yourself alone. Until you are content with sittting at home alone and just being with yourself, you’ll never have a meaningful relationship.

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casualty80 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

This person is right. But if you have some brain disorder, you may never be content alone with yourself. Humans = social animals. Natural selection takes some people out of the loop.

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