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Everything may be easy too you…

But it’s not the same to me. Getting good grades, making friends, puplic speaking. It’s so easy, it was easy for me, keep trying you’ll realize how easy it was… IT”S NOT EASY.

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Duskbrood offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Psha, nothing worth having is easy. but nothing difficult is mastered without practice.

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Pianosaurus Rex offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Of course it’s not easy, whoever says it’s easy is delusional. However, it’s easier than you think it is. It’s mostly just a matter of defeating whatever is standing in your way. If it’s fear that’s holding you back, do what scares you anyway. If it’s an emotional wall, break through it and do it anyway. After you’re able to break through, everything will be easier. Not easy, but easier. It just takes work… A LOT of work, haha.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

not everything may seem easy but if you try harder it is

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Bl00dy D.3.4.T.H. offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

But breaking those walls that have been built by me and reinforced by every one else is darn near impossible.

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BulletproofHeart8 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Nothing in life is ever easy. To those that some things come easy to, other things may be harder for them. Realize that. I’m sure there are things that are easy for you. If you can’t think of anything, try new things and you may realize those things that you are good at. Trust me, it’ll all work out in time. =) Be more optimistic and positive about this. Those who live in negativity tend to think lowly of themselves. Chin up!
-”The future is bulletproof”

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BulletproofHeart8 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Those walls are invisible and are meant to be brought down! Don’t pay attention to those that reinforce them. They’re only trying to lower your self esteem. You and only you have established those walls, and you and only you can bring them down!
-”The future is bulletproof”

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Pianosaurus Rex offline Verified User (4 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Mewtwo’s Advocate wrote:
But breaking those walls that have been built by me and reinforced by every one else is darn near impossible.

But it’s not impossible. It’s like bungee jumping: the first time, you don’t want to do it. But once you push through and jump anyway, everything afterward is easier.
You have the strength to break through those walls, but you’re putting too much thought into it. Don’t let your thoughts control you. When you’re trying to get some new friends, instead of saying “I want to say hello, but I’m afraid”, just focus on “I want to say hello,” and nothing else. Not easy, but easier than you’re making it out to be.

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SoulSurviver offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (12 minutes after post)

If everything was easy life would be boring… my brother once told me that nothing is easy but the positive side is that if you took the time to ask you’d find that no one truly believes that life is easy and yet billions of people are still out there living their lives to the fullest.

It’s not the destination, but the journey.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

those are small problems think about cancer death world hunger poverty i would be gratful if those were the big problems in the world. Keep u head high

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Bl00dy D.3.4.T.H. offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

But people don’t realize that my hole that I’ve dug is hard to get out of, but yet it’s so easy to fix every problem according to others. I was a loner since grade 3, I accepted it, even worse, I became it even more. I made one friend since ten and she disregards me compared to others. I didn’t pay attention in school so now I’m dumb. Any problem you think I could have I have it.

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BulletproofHeart8 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

This must be hard for you, but at least try to get out of it. You sound as though you’re not putting in any effort to climb out of this hole. Have you? Try making friends outside of school, try new things (Clubs that you’re interested in? Maybe you’ll find people that are just like you! You never know until you try!). As for school, you can turn that around. Maybe a peer tutor or staying after school for help might fix that problem. I’m sure that you’re not as dumb as you think (You certainly don’t sound it). Keep your chin up!

“The future is bulletproof”

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

fine what about ur grandma having cancer for a 2 time or ur baby cuz with lukimia yah i might not be noticed hell alot of people hate me in 6th grade a kid made a site devoted to hating me and the worst part was it i liked him or that i was accused of a crime i didnt commet and the police came to my house what about those problems do i need to go on

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BulletproofHeart8 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Music = My life wrote:
fine what about ur grandma having cancer for a 2 time or ur baby cuz with lukimia yah i might not be noticed hell alot of people hate me in 6th grade a kid made a site devoted to hating me and the worst part was it i liked him or that i was accused of a crime i didnt commet and the police came to my house what about those problems do i need to go on

I am so sorry =( That is horrible!

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (20 minutes after post)

yah it sucks but i try not to think about that i try and move on think of the upsides of my life

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BulletproofHeart8 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Music = My life wrote:
yah it sucks but i try not to think about that i try and move on think of the upsides of my life

Good for you! It takes a strong person to do that!

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Bl00dy D.3.4.T.H. offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

The police thing happened to me wth stolen computers once. The cancers doesn’t affect the hole, just my emotional stamina.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (24 minutes after post)

okay not to seem a bit*h but maybe u dont have friends bc u act like this me me me me the stuff i said was emotional and all u have to say is u not even a sorry thats nice of u

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SoulSurviver offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Music = My life wrote:
okay not to seem a bit*h but maybe u dont have friends bc u act like this me me me me the stuff i said was emotional and all u have to say is u not even a sorry thats nice of u

The same can be said about you… Mewtwo’s Advocate was talking about his problems and all you could do was try to out play him by posting your own problems…. If you want to talk your own problems out then make your own post… not that I don’t feel sorry for you I do but don’t try to out play someone in their own post… :/

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Bl00dy D.3.4.T.H. offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Took the words right outta my mouth.

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Duskbrood offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Ok, children. Everyone’s selfish. Now, mewtwo, maybe having a little more optimistic attitude would help. Music, can you see where it looks like you’re trying to hijack the post?

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BulletproofHeart8 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Okay okay okay, no more fighting. Mewtwo, be optimistic! Everything will work out for you, you just have to work hard for it! Friends, grades, etc.! You need to sound like you are willing to fight for it, and are willing to break down those invisible walls around you! I’m sure everyone’s had to break their own wall’s once before, so I believe that you can do it!
-”The future is bulletproof”

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SoulSurviver offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (43 minutes after post)

hmm… why are people always against fighting… :/ oh well… I agree with both of you (Duskbrood and BulletproofHeart8) optimistic attitude… Or you can give up in school, and keep living life like a loner … :) solitude… why are friends so important anyways?
Life can work out perfectly for you without good grades, friends, or public speaking… you’ll be shocked how life tends to play out… o_o

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BulletproofHeart8 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (51 minutes after post)

Usually to be happy people need friends to surround themselves with, incase they ever find themselves needing somebody to turn to. As for grades, it depends on whether or not you want to be successful in a certain dream job you have.

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SoulSurviver offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 hour after post)

I believe that is why families where created but that might just be me… as for your dream job… there are dream jobs that don’t require education :) hmm… and some people make it big by dropping out of college… ahem… Bill Gates… the creators of Facebook… but I guess that depends on your luck.

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BulletproofHeart8 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Do some soul searching and go for a walk and think about life. Where do you see yourself in five years? Only you know what will really make your life better. We can tell you what to do until we are blue in the face, but only you for yourself can decide what to do.

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