boyfriend help: My best friend ditches me for her boyfriend. - Help.com

if you are really best friends as you say, you should just tell her how you feel and how you felt that time, if you leave it like it is, things are gonna get worse and your relationship with her may even end!

Eventually in the pursuit of love, love may come first for people before friendship.

If you don’t like being treated as the third wheel, just don’t even bother going with them in the first place. Gives you piece of mind and time on your own to spend with your own boyfriend, and let them do whatever they want instead.

And if she poses the question WHY, just tell her how you feel in a calm manner, don’t blame anything, don’t impose or say bad of her boyfriend or her if it comes up to that point. Just, speak your feelings.

Hope it goes well.

I’m sorry to hear of your pain, but I have to agree with Ash… you have to talk to her about it and how you feel. Try to stay away from the “You make me feel…” statements because that will only p^ss her off and the conversation will go sour very quickly. It sounds like you might be kind of young yet, I don’t know. If you are this sort of behavior is very common. We don’t really know where to draw the lines of friendship when we experience our first boyfriends or girlfriends. A new boyfriend tends to get all the attention. As we get older we learn that our other friendships are just as important… so I congratulate you on your maturity…. lets hope your friend can be mature about it too.

if she truly loves her boyfriend then she will put him before you. You cant love someone and put another before them if their love is genuine

you know the same thing happened to me, and after away I just blew up on her. I told her how upset I was how I felt she was putting him first. How everything was about him. The point is, I told her and that’s what you need to do. Talk to her when he’s not around and if you can’t do that then say it in front of him. Who cares what he thinks. If she was truly your friend she will understand and try to change, but sometimes that’s not the case. It could turn out good or bad, but u do have to say something because it won’t change. If she really is your friend then everything should be fine, personally to me, she sounds like a rude person who only cares about herself. Seriously even my friend wasn’t that bad. I just hope this helps you, you can write me anytime on here and i’ll answer. Again I hope this helps and that everything works out