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My husband won’t stop texting/ e-mailing other women.
This has been a problem for two years now. We fight and fight and fight about it, I am at the point where I don’t know what to do anymore, I don’t even know if it’s worth the fight. In the past we have had problems with explicit texts on his phone but lately I will say (from what I know) these recent texts seem to be harmless, they are normal conversations… what are you doing? how are you? etc. EXCEPT he tries to delete them right away, I have only seen them a few times before he has the chance to delete them. (YES I KNOW, I SHOULD NOT GO THROUGH HIS PHONE but it’s hard not too wonder)Anyway, its lots of different girls, no of which I have ever met. One of the “current” ones he talks to almost daily, quite a few messages a day. It really bothers me. No, they do not text when I am around but that makes me even more weary. I have checked the phone bill from time to time and some days he’ll start texting her as soon as I leave for work in the morning. I have walked into the room on occasion and he’ll try to hide his phone so that I won’t know he was just on it and I have woke up in the middle of the night to him on his phone.
Also! He has been emailing one of his professors (they are about the same age). The semester is over but they still keep in contact… the other day I read an email that was waaaay to flirty for my liking but he said I was over analyzing it.
Please someone tell me, am I over reacting, what do I do?
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