I am starting to hate my husband.
I gave birth to our son last April and I feel like he’s become the reason why we’re staying together.
My husband is not a bad person. He’s a great father and treats me okay.
As a woman, I need more than “okay” though. I do not feel like he’s attracted to me anymore. Since our son’s birth we’ve had sex less than 10 times, most of it I’ve initiated. He makes comments sometimes which bring me down. I used to be a very cheerful and confident woman, now I feel so ugly and dissatisfied with myself alot. I feel like he just stays with me because of the baby and if he would have his way, it’d just be him and our son.
Also, we’d always do what he wants to do. When I’m watching tv and he comes into the room, I’d have to change the channel to what he likes. When I want to go somewhere, we wouldn’t unless he agrees. Sometimes I feel so inadequate, ugly and stupid around him. :(
I don’t know if this is hormones, or I’m overreacting, but I’m badly craving love and affection and appreciation. :(
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