Why are you texting him?
I remember a girl who would talk everything out on the phone the day before a date. Wow… she made it hard to talk about stuff on the date the next night. Sheesh.
Save up your talk for face to face dates. Go DO THINGS on dates… it doesn’t matter if you don’t think you’ll like it. Do it anyway so you have something to talk about. Movies, food, theatre, art, skating, swimming, wave pools, skydiving… whatever it is.
That’s the boyfriend’s job anyway. If all he does he respond to texts… that’s kind of lame.
ask him what time it is….LOL
are you a long distance relationship?
frankly speaking i talk to my gf on fone and text for 8 years now…and we still have something to talk abt ….i never had to think what i will text :)
no but we go to different schools and dont get to see eachother all that often.
priya_verma27 wrote:
frankly speaking i talk to my gf on fone and text for 8 years now…and we still have something to talk abt ….i never had to think what i will text :)
Wow, that’s so helpful.
yeah. we talk a lot and hes a deep conversation kind of person who will start things by saying “shock me” or “tell me something” and I dont always have something to say.
if u r in a right relationship….u dont have to think something to text….if u r thinking what u will text means, u r thinking what shud u write which he will like…thats not a good thing to go with…u shud write what u think…not what he likes…u gotta be very honest abt watever ya write…he will like it…believe me…
linuxya wrote:
priya_verma27 wrote:
frankly speaking i talk to my gf on fone and text for 8 years now…and we still have something to talk abt ….i never had to think what i will text :)
Wow, that’s so helpful.
luvzdrum wrote:
no but we go to different schools and dont get to see eachother all that often.
Lots of times when a conversation goes stale you should take a break from talking. It doesn’t mean the end of the world, but you should just show him that you can be independent but without getting to distant at the same time.
My bf and I started as long distant, we lived across country from each other, I would have him talk about what he wanted from our relationship, and tell him what I did too.
When it got stale, I told him that I was gonna go do something that required my attention for a bit, he started to miss me while I was gone from texting so he started texting and talking back.
When things get awkward don’t let it stay that way, go do something else, it will get bad.
food and sports.. espn.com is a good source for topics if you want to get him talking.
You should talk about how you made this post and nobody gave any good advice. But wait, that one person said something interesting, and then that other person did too! I bet it’d be fascinating, you could talk about this post for hours, and maybe on some of your anniversaries in the future. It’ll be truly awesome, but only if you take my suggestion and apply it with all the enthusiasm you can. Good luck!
jobseeker wrote:
You should talk about how you made this post and nobody gave any good advice. But wait, that one person said something interesting, and then that other person did too! I bet it’d be fascinating, you could talk about this post for hours, and maybe on some of your anniversaries in the future. It’ll be truly awesome, but only if you take my suggestion and apply it with all the enthusiasm you can. Good luck!
LMAO!!!!
k.r.6.1991.k.r wrote:
jobseeker wrote:
You should talk about how you made this post and nobody gave any good advice. But wait, that one person said something interesting, and then that other person did too! I bet it’d be fascinating, you could talk about this post for hours, and maybe on some of your anniversaries in the future. It’ll be truly awesome, but only if you take my suggestion and apply it with all the enthusiasm you can. Good luck!
LMAO!!!!
right, that’s exactly why I don’t talk much
me and my boyfriend talked like that a lot when we were apart for the summer. we became really good friends playing a game where we would alternate with questions about each other. some would be serious, and some would be simple.
have you ever wanted a pet?
who is your closest friend besides me?
where do you want to go when you graduate?
what’s the most artistic thing you’ve made?
what are your siblings like?
what is the nicest thing that somebody’s done for you?
what was the best christmas/birthday gift you’ve ever gotten?
what’s the most extreme sport you would do?
when did you really start believing in [religion, political view, green movement, etc.]?
what’s your favorite movie and why?
if you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?
what’s the hardest decision you’ve ever had to make?
there’s a few i could think of right now. it’s easy for a conversation to stall, so i wouldn’t worry about that. it’s hard to think of something new all the time. asking questions back and forth can be fun and you learn about each other. maybe you get a simple answer, or maybe you open up a whole can of worms. you find yourself learning things about the other person, and sharing things about yourself, that you would never have thought of to bring up on your own. let your curiosity get the better of you - sometimes simple questions lead to more complex questions. your conversation can go anywhere - deep, flirty, fun, romantic, comical.
enjoy. :)
All u gotta do iz say random stuff like omg i saw this awesome show or make up somethin like omg i had da wierdest dream dat a herd of squirlz ran me over that wood b sure 2 get hiz attention itz not hard dont think about it toohard juss text act like he’z 1 of da gurlz except u get 2 kiss him lol but dont gossip boyz dont like girl gossip lol but me an my bf been goin out for 2 yearz we text every day an never hav a time were we dont hav sumtin 2 tlk bout but also dont sufficate him if therez a pause let him no well im bout 2 do bla bla let me no if u wanna tlk bout sumtin an he shood b able 2 think of sumtin later
If hez 1 of doez boyz who hav nun 2 tlk bout all da time same thing random stuff ask him how hiz day waz plan a date an hav an hour or two were u dont text him lol
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I need help cause my bf and I have run out of things to talk bout at skool and online he is kinda not very talkative but I rly like him and don’t wanna lose him and I’m shy too
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Ask him out on a date and go to the movies, saketing, go out for lunch…try not to talk too much over text wait till you can talk face to face. Soon he will be the one wanting to talk over text. And then it won’t be hard to make a conversation
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Same Problem but what if I know everything About him , What do we talk about ?
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Diez_melani wrote:
Same Problem but what if I know everything About him , What do we talk about ?
Just talk about what you like.
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