school help: i like this guy and he is super popular,and i never talk to him - Help.com

you have put this post up so many times and no one has helped you yet. so why do you keep putting it on? out of couriosity

If it were me, I’d not directly approach, but when you see the guy that you talk to on myspace.com in passing at school or “at the right moment,” just casually mention that you like his myspace account and his communicating with you on myspace and that you’d like to call him or he can call you sometime and you two could then talk and slowly see what happens. I would not “dive in” so hard and fast that you “like” him; just start out as friends and very slowly move from there as the days and weeks pass. It could work. Another suggestion is that when you talk to him on myspace, tell him that you’d like to talk to him on the phone sometime (without putting a lot of pressure on him) and go from there. Personally, I’d rather appropriately approach the person you “REALLY like” rather than settling for someone you like but not as much as this guy. If the guy you REALLY like is not interested, I’d go for the other guy - but slowly and not “come on too strong to fast with either guy. The guy that is super popular may be that way at school with a lot of the kids, but is shy when meeting a new girl and becoming friends, and perhaps dating after. Just my thoughts. Good luck!

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fcx2inga — in response to southernqueen2