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I’m not quite sure why I’m posting this, since I really don’t think there is any cure.

But here goes.

I’m lonely. Just so deeply lonely. Its such a strange feeling for me, since I have always been the guy that was the “lone wolf”. Emotionally I am just so alone. What I would give for a companion. A woman that I could talk to, and flirt with, and confide in, and simply hold.

I haven’t even touched a girl in about a year and a half now. I really never thought I needed anyone. God I’m wrong.

It’s not about sex, though I can’t say it wouldn’t be nice. Its about the companionship. Just that sweet warm fuzzy you get in your stomach when she touches your face. Or that pure contentedness when you sit on the couch and watch a movie while cuddling together. Or that exhilarating feeling of a four hour long discussion that covers everything from anatomy to physics to philosophy and alien life and god. Not really going anywhere, but still there.

I never realized how cold I could be at night.

**** I’m lonely.

And it’s not even as simple as going out and trying to meet a girl. I mean, it is that simple, but what do I have to offer her? I have been jobless for nearly a year now. And I’m on the brink of being on the streets. I have bad teeth and other health problems, not to mention a few mental disorders. I don’t have any real future, no college in sight for me…sucks to. I wanted to study astronomy and physics…

And if you haven’t noticed I get into self pitying moods….

****…I’m lonely.

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gaby_6 offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (2 hours, 18 minutes after post)

whats with people saying get a job lol, haven’t you realized the economy is going down and for many people no matter how much they try there are no jobs, i don’t think he has never tried to get a job.

Watch this:
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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 4 months ago (3 hours, 2 minutes after post)

how about you change all the negative phrases in your post and replace them with postive ones. for exanple if your lonely, wake up each morning and tell your self that people love being around you, tell your self that you are attractive, tell your self that you are going to find a job. if you don’t tell yourself these things, no one will and it starts by you, loving yourself first.
i pray things get better for you.

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2 years, 4 months ago (1 day, 15 hours after post)

I agree that there are always jobs, but if nobody wants to hire you…. I kept a record of how many applications and follow ups I had in September. 53 applications and 27 follow ups. That’s almost two applications everyday and a follow up everyday. One business I had turned in six applications. Didn’t get called in for a single interview.

I have never been lucky at getting a job, despite me being a pretty good worker. Toss in living an hour away from the nearest city and not having a car or license… The job situation in Oregon isn’t the best, half my friends are in the same situation I am in, though they have better support networks than I do.

This lack of being able to get a job is why I’m going to be homeless come early next month, I’m gonna migrate first to Cali for the remainder of the winter, then in Portland OR. Then, if I still can’t get lucky, head over to the eastern US maybe.

@suzanneu
Maybe your right, but just positive thinking doesn’t actually address the problem. Its a band-aid when you need a tourniquet. I know that I am pretty good looking, but my current living situation isn’t exactly the best for keeping up a decent appearance. The fact of the matter is that its human nature to concentrate on the negative and ignore the positive, and since my situation the past year or so hasn’t exactly been a happy one. Anyway, thank you though for your prayers.

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