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I never thought I would know what it felt like to be stabbed in the back by a friend.

Earlier today at lunch I went to the snack bar with one of my friends. When we got back another one of my friends had taken my seat. I told her several times to move because it was obvious that I had been sitting there, my book bag was there and she had just shoved it aside. I tried to sit on the seat with her and scooch her off. But then she said something mean to me so I bonked her in the forehead with my palm, not hard of course but later that day I was called down to the principles office and talked to about bullying and things. I couldn’t stop trembling and I couldn’t keep my breath even. My friend had made a huge deal of it she went to the nurse and got an ice pack! One of my friends had told me I hadn’t bonked her hard she even demonstrated on me and it hadn’t hurt. Then she told one of the teachers on me. We had been friends for six years! I had waited after class for her for her boyfriend, helped her out when she was the new student and didn’t say anything when she obviously just grabbed a box of stickers put them in a bag and gave them to me as a birthday present! Now I have a detention. I have never had a detention and I’m terrified. My parents reasurred me it was going to be alright but I feel so ashamed and scared and I can’t believe a friend I’ve done so much for would do that to me. She was always to rough with me but I never said anything. Maybe she was never a friend at all. (By the way the principle told me to write a letter of APOLOGY and I did but I’m so scared.) Sorry that the post was so long…. :/

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Keckers offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

haahh man that kid isn’t your friend miss
seriously shrug this girl off she isn’t worth worrying over

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rizzlebug1 offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I’m not a fan of Tyler Perry’s, but there is one Madea quote I think you should hear or well ‘read’ right now.

“If somebody wants to walk out of your life, let - them - go!”

“Some people are meant to come into your life for a lifetime, some for only a season and you got to know which is which. And you’re always messing up when you mix those seasonal people up with lifetime expectations.

I put everybody that comes into my life in the category of a tree. Some people are like leaves on a tree. When the wind blows, they’re over there… wind blow that way they over here… they’re unstable. When the seasons change they wither and die, they’re gone. That’s alright. Most people are like that, they’re not there to do anything but take from the tree and give shade every now and then. That’s all they can do. But don’t get mad at people like that, that’s who they are. That’s all they were put on this earth to be. A leaf.

Some people are like a branch on that tree. You have to be careful with those branches too, cause they’ll fool you. They’ll make you think they’re a good friend and they’re real strong but the minute you step out there on them, they’ll break and leave you high and dry.

But if you find 2 or 3 people in your life that’s like the roots at the bottom of that tree you are blessed. Those are the kind of people that aren’t going nowhere. They aren’t worried about being seen, nobody has to know that they know you, they don’t have to know what they’re doing for you but if those roots weren’t there, that tree couldn’t live.

A tree could have a hundred million branches but it only takes a few roots down at the bottom to make sure that tree gets everything it needs. When you get some roots, hold on to them but the rest of it… just let it go. Let folks go.”

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (46 minutes after post)

It’s easy to wirte a note.
Sorry for the mix up
something like that. plain and simple

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alechaas3 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

She doesn’t sound like a friend.. but you made the mistake of hitting her in the head. Regardless of how hard it is. You still physically hit her, which should never be the end result.
If she was being a jerk and wouldn’t move, simply grab your bag, find another seat , and stop talking to the girl.. don’t get physical. Not surprised you got detention over it honestly.

People can be jerks and be provocative, but when you let it get the better of you and you act physical in response, you will end up being the one paying for it … Learn how to avoid those people

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