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Please help me, I dont know what to do.

I moved to germany with my family 5 years ago. in those 5 years, my life went to hell. i am now 19, i cant get a job no matter what it is, i went from hotel to waitress to airport to sales and no one wants me. I have even tried to go back to school but they wont accept me.In america i only had good grades and i have a clean police record. I have no friends, i dont get along with my dad, my mom releases all her worries on me.I never get out of the house since i dont have friends and since i cant get a job. I cant take it anymore, i cry everyday for a week now.I dont know what to do. please someone help me.

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Sinilumi 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Don’t give up. Think positively.

Why don’t you have any friends? Do you have a particular problem making new friends?

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Sinilumi wrote:
Don’t give up. Think positively.

Why don’t you have any friends? Do you have a particular problem making new friends?

Thanks, i dont know why, i have tried, but for some reason, ther germans that i know, dont really like americans.

Sinilumi 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (49 minutes after post)

Be nice to them and show them why you would be a good friend.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (51 minutes after post)

Sinilumi wrote:
Be nice to them and show them why you would be a good friend.

i have, i try so hard, and i have been trying for 5 years, and i just dont have the strength anymore. When i first came here, they threw salad at me and my younger brother.

Sinilumi 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (55 minutes after post)

Why do you think they don’t want you as a friend because you’re an American? Could the reason be something else?

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

Sinilumi wrote:
Why do you think they don’t want you as a friend because you’re an American? Could the reason be something else?

yeah i think thats the reason, i cant find any other reason, because when i was in america, i had a lot of friends.

Sinilumi 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Since you didn’t say they insult you for being an American or something to that effect, there’s a very good chance the reason is something else. Is there anyone else that wants to be their friend, but who they don’t accept as one? Did you have any problems making new friends when you lived in America? Is there something all of them have in common but in which you differ from them (specifically, something that could make them fear your being different or something that could be the reason for them being friends)?

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (21 hours, 29 minutes after post)

No i did not have any problems in america making friends. The only thing that i can think of is that because i spoke a different language, they spoke german and i spoke english.

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