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I know it’s long but I need some advice on what to do.
Ok so for the past year I have had my eye on this unbelievable girl that i had only minimal contact with, but out of the blue one day she asks me if i would come out to the bar that night with some mutual friend. While I’m there she takes my phone and programs her number and her and i really hit it off that night and i end up giving her a ride home (nothing more than a ride and conversation) and end up talking to her all night. I end up going out with her 3 more times that same week and have an amazing time. Now the problem I have is this girl is drop dead gorgeous I know there will be times when I hang out other guys would talk to her it comes with the territory, but this guy whom i knew she knew was talking to her and I was trying not to listen in but I over heard him ask why when he asks her to hang out she already has plans, and he even specifically named a small local concert her and I had just been too, and i just couldnt divert my attention anymore and started to listen in. Basically what ended up happening is since i really didnt get to hear anything clearer, i guess i paniced. The guy got up and left and when I got a chance i asked her very calmly what was going on, she assumed i ment with him because she said “He’s nothing to worry about he has been trying to get with me for awhile” and i said “I mean between me and you” I told her “i had alot of fun this past week and i was kind of starting to like her and i was just wondering whats going on” she responded with a big smile “I kinda like you too and I just want to continue to hang out and see where it goes” then she said it felt kind of awkard because of all the people that were around so i offered to go outside with her and she said she would just rather talk about it later, so i dropped and had a good rest of the night. Then 2 days later we go hang out with those mutual friends and i get along with her but maybe only 10% of the attention i had gotten the previous week. Now 3 days after that and i havent talked to her. I know i will see her because i work with her (big retail environment our jobs almost never bring us near each other unless we go out of our way). I just don’t know what I should do i really dont want this situation to end like this. Any advise will be greatly appriciated especially if you took the time to read this entire thing. Thanks
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