So, I’m a jerk.
I’m gonna try and make this as short as possible. I’m a college student, in only my second long-term relationship. First one ended because she cheated on me while I was on a missions trip. I didn’t break up until 4 months after I found out because i was scared she go off and do something stupid. I;m now with an amazing girl who I can trust, who loves me to death, and is all around amazing. A little clingy, but amazing. I kind of rushed into the relationship with her, and she rushed as well barely getting out of her last relationship. But, she’s genuine and definitely committed. Anyways, When I wasn’t in those relationships, I loved flirting with my friends that are girls, not being promiscuous, but definitely having fun.
And recently I’ve slowly been losing my feelings for the girl I’m with. I don’t know why. She’s perfect. She’s beautiful, not the prettiest girl that I know (I know I sound shallow but I’m just being honest). but she’s great. And I sometimes feel the urge to just be single again. To not be tied down. To be able to go on my business trips (movie filming) without having to apologize to her for being gone so long. I feel like I don’t know anymore if she’s what I truly want. I even question if I’m really in love with her sometimes. She’d be absolutely devastated if she heard any of this. She’s amazing, and I don’t know what to do.
Ask more info and I’ll answer, please help guys. Thank you.
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