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i need advice.

so ive been having A TON of stress latley, and im really confused. (im in eighth grade) like i think i might have an anxiety problem, like now im scared to stay home alone, and ill start like, hyperventillating. also im depressed about my volleyball and my friends, and i was thinking maybe i should see the school councler. i dont know if i should tho, cuz its embaressing, and idk if i want to talk to him about this stuff, should i talk to him?

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tortor offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Niagara Falls, ON, CA | 2 years, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

if you feel you need someone to talk to, go for it!
dont worry what people think about it. if you think it will help you, it probably will.

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Help me with: all my friends are going to college and the nearest one is two hours away.
Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (6 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Yes, see the counselor! It can help you very much to talk about with somebody understanding!

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JJACJE offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 day after post)

You are internalizing things and making them a problem or an issue. for one thing you have too much going on in your life. down size everything you see and think about is not that relevant, meditate on this. you are healthly you obviously ejoy school that is cool. find time to pend some quiet time with youself. learn to listen to the voice inside you that tells you what you should know and not what you want to hear. god has a plan for your life that you could never imagine until you finish the journey and it does not matter about the small things. think simplicity uncomplicate your life you are to young to be burden with the small stuff. you are blessed more than you know. you seem to be a good person and that speaks volume learn to lvie without all the gadgets and things. you will enjoy life a little more. follow your mind and not the crowd and you will be okay. trust me you will!!!

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