sooo my love life sucks and i need help.
i really liek this guy. and i mean really. and he likes me too, he even told me. but he told me he just isnt ready for a relationship yet. so where does that leave me? no where. just heart broken. i donno what to do. do i wait for him to be ready, do i try to move on? i dont know. please someone help me. i need to knwo before my heart gets broken again
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dont worry about it
keep on stepping ;)
theres plenty more out there ;)
I would look for someone who is ready,he may not be that interested.
please other people give me more advice, i dont know if i can move on. thats how much i love this man. i could marry him and i dont knwo what to do. i cant sleep and i cant eat because of this. i need help. people please help me :’-(
The problem is..if he doesn’t want a relationship, there is nothing you can do to change that. If you love him. you will give him his space if that is what he wants.
“If you love something, set it free…
If it comes back, it yours
If it doesn’t, it never was….”
A person can like you and care about you but not want to commit to you and commit to the time and work it takes to make a relationship work. It depends on where he is inside of himself about life and his goals and his future.
I would move on and give him the space and time he wants. He at least had the courtesy to let you know rather than leave you hanging.
Get to know other guys and with the pasage of time, your feelings will lessen for him.
He doesnt want a relationship friend,thus he not interested friend,you must move on.
An Undisclosed Location | 6 years, 10 months ago (18 hours, 22 minutes after post)
Don’t give up, just go with the flow and let him come to you when he’s ready, enjoy it as it is until then.
try to become friends and everything will flow naturaly
move on, when you see him looking at you eith another guy he’ll be jelous and probalbly would want to ask you out. if that dosent wok, which it probably will, you then go to him and ask him when he’ll be ready.
remember,this and answer it your self: should i follow my heart or my head?
i have the same problem almost, but i remember that every time i see him.
love, stuck with it too.
help me with my love life. HELP!
i recently fell in love with this guy proper fell in love but he is 16 years older than me i didnt no this at first at first i thought he was 10 year older than me
and my mum n dad found out n all hell let loose n since then we havnt talkd hes told my mates he doesnt want to talk t me bcoz it’ll make it harder than wat it is
the worst thing is he live right across the road and he goes with his mate at work, n he works were we hang out so i see him everyday i want to look at him and smile but i darnt i want to try say something bt i darent my friends keep tellin me to jst smile n say hi, bt i jst cant, i cnt even delete his numba it propa hurts i have to act like i dnt no him bt if he stil has feelins 4 me why cnt we talk. wat shall i do? someone please help me :(
to whom it may concern..
I have a live in partner and shes a lesbian..before i had a relationship with her..i support my family..and now that we were live in already she don’t want me to support my family anymore.. my problem is… i need to support my family still cause they don’t have money to feed their selves..and she don’t want to give money or allowance.. i need to work on my own in her business so i will got salary to her.. and my other problem is.. my salary is not enough to support my family ..im always short in money.. and every time she knew i don’t have money anymore shes fighting with me..and always ask me wheres my money… please advice me what to do.. she want me to choose between her and my family.
hope to hear from you soon
My own love life sucks as well. I’m 41. Grit your teeth & wait for ‘time’ to reduce the hurt. ‘Time’ really sucks but it works. time is a healer. Just dont let your own emotions go into freefall in the mean time. Every thing happens for a reason. you just cant understand this untill you’ve moved forward in your life & reached a position where you can look back on your life & say ‘If that **** didn’t happen, I wouldn’t be where I am now in life. That **** made me stronger!
My blog. My life. Search ‘aid renegade’ online & you’ll find me.
Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while.
He has hurt me a few times.
but he is so sweet.
when we argue,he NEVER yells.
I love him!
But he want to leave me because he doesnt want to gurt me!
so what should I do?
I want help plz people i love pooja nd also she love but her parent not agree she with me
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