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ok basically i really like this girl and we used to

sit beside each other in class and talk a lot and one day some idiot guy took her seat when she was late so she sat behind me and i was really pissed at the guy so i kept swearing at him and telling him to move and she heard all that and basically thought i was a total jerk and just doesnt wanna talk to me. I told her upfront that i like her she said she doesnt feel the same way. the worst part about it is that at one point i was certain she liked me and had a real good chance with her but i blew it from one mistake and i really like her. but she’s always gonna remember at the back of her mind that one day when i was a jerk. it’s really killing me can someone help me?

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Kilowatt offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Its tough to say, I would just wait it out and try to prove to her over time that your actually a nice guy

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Don’t worry, we all make mistakes and have our moments and I’m sure she knows that. I don’t think you’re a jerk at all by the way, you just wanted to sit with her and was frustrated when you couldn’t which I think was really sweet :) just approach her every now and then and talk to her normally, being kind when you can and try to show her a nice side of you she maybe hasn’t seen because of what happened. If you develop a relationship or friendship with her, whatever first impressions from what she thought was going on she won’t even remember and won’t think of you as a jerk when she got to know you better. Offer to go out with her alone or in a group to try and build a friendship, or just talk to her or hang out more often. Once she knows the kind of person you are, then chances are you’ll get into a relationship as she probably does like you but hasn’t admitted it yet because she’s unsure :) Hope I’ve helped somehow.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

maybe at some point she DID like you…people always change their mind about those things. maybe youre swearing reminded her of her violent father or something, you just dont know…all you know is she doesnt feel the same way about you. time to find another girl.

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