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why are boys so clingy?

I’ve never found myself attractive, I mean I know I could be a lot worse, but I’m not stunning or anything. Yet lately I’ve had SEVEN boys after me. Everytime I check my phone/facebook/whatever I have heaps of messages from them. I’ve lied & said I don’t have the internet anymore just to escape from them. It’s getting to the point where I want to smack them all in the face, it’s so annoying. I’ve told them I want to be single but they just don’t get it. so now I’m being a complete b**** to them in hopes they’ll go away, but they don’t. what can I do? i’m annoyed all the time now.

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shol'vah offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Anchorage, AK, US | 2 years, 3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Boys tend to like what they can’t have, all I can tell you is keep discouraging them. Eventually they should move on to other girls

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2 years, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

oh I hope so. It is just so annoying

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

haha, at least you know you’re pretty desireable. ;)
it might be annoying, but you know some girls really wish they were in your position. kinda funny how that works.

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2 years, 3 months ago (2 hours, 49 minutes after post)

Wizardof0zy wrote:
haha, at least you know you’re pretty desireable. ;)
it might be annoying, but you know some girls really wish they were in your position. kinda funny how that works.

i used to wish i had them after me, now i regret ever wishing it D:

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (2 hours, 53 minutes after post)

it will pass if you really want it to. is there nothing redeemable in them?

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2 years, 3 months ago (3 hours, 3 minutes after post)

it’s just that I want to be single. when i wanted a boyfriend i was trash to them, & now when i’m happy on my own, they want me. D:

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 hours, 6 minutes after post)

that’s pretty ironic. if they treated you like trash, then they don’t really sound like decent people.

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