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I was in a relationship that lasted two years we just recently split up…

I am seeing other guys nothing intamate but talking to them(mind you the ex has know clue who they are and have never met them)… We both go to the same college and I have noticed he has been talking a lot to a girl we both know. She is always at the dorms,,, not in his room but just here doing his homework and things like that…. Every time I see them talk I want to scream. I want to get over him but in the back of my mind I know I don’t. We are still very intamate but he won’t kiss me any more, in front of the guys yea but not in front of her. I thought maybe we could get back together, but he broke it off when we lost our baby What should I do? xoxo Dazed and Confused

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IFHMondays offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Not see him or anyone for awhile. Don’t return calls. Make yourself unavailable. Your friends will have to help you, so ask them. You’re not strong enough yourself and you’ll give in to loneliness and insecurity unless you lean on them. Be done with it. Bigger and better things await. Quit being a coward and making what you know are stupid excuses to carry on with something that’s clearly going nowhere. Hope you listen to this and not keep on acting dumb because it’s just one of millions of dudes out there.

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