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I want everyones opinion, what do u guys think of ‘love at first site’

isit really possible to just know that he is ‘the one’ , because of a feeling or something?

i know someone who knew ‘he was the one’ when she first shook hands with him.

has anyone else had any experiences like that? any opinions on this?

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A-Cortex offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (0 minutes after post)

Honestly? I think I have felt that. But I won’t know for sure until my death bed hahaha

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kielee offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

Yes, I’ve had soulmate connections. You just know. They feel like family.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I think it happens but you have to be really lucky to find it and then have something come out of it :)But it’s lovely when it does I imagine…

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2 years, 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Depends what love is. I once met a girl that i felt was truly amazing the first time i saw her, and my feelings just continued growing. So yeah, if love at first sight means falling in love the first 5 min you meet a girl, than yes. I don’t believe in some magical connection, but i do believe in REALLY good matches. ;)

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

it depends what site it is, but I guess its possible.
my Mother wouldn’t let me date a site like 4chan, he’s too much of a badboy.
She would much rather have me date a rich one like google.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I believe in love at first sight, but I think most people confuse it with lust at first sight most of the time

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

AlkalineKnight wrote:
it depends what site it is, but I guess its possible.
my Mother wouldn’t let me date a site like 4chan, he’s too much of a badboy.
She would much rather have me date a rich one like google.

Haha AlkalineKnight :’) I’m sorry but that really made me laugh

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

i believe in love at first sight…coz he/she may be like perfectly fitting for u like hand in glove?

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justice82n offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Having never have felt that myself, I think its a very strong sence of physical attraction or something… whatever floats your boat though really!

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

I saw this boy once and totally fell in love- he was cute and polite- i didnt even speek to him- it totally came across though (i was sat in the car he was walking with his mates and he stood out like hell on fire)

But saying that some people first meet their husband, lover, whatever and think EW but turns they love each over lodes like, so i dunno.

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carlybroken offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

I saw this boy once and totally fell in love- he was cute and polite- i didnt even speek to him- it totally came across though (i was sat in the car he was walking with his mates and he stood out like hell on fire)

But saying that some people first meet their husband, lover, whatever and think EW but turns they love each over lodes like, so i dunno.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (46 minutes after post)

i remember the first time i saw my bf at a party, i just kept staring at him…idky…i didnt think he was hot or anything.i did think he was really handsome..wen he walk past by i was totally attract to his smell(im a freak) n i felt like i seen him somewhere before in life but for sure i know i havent…as for him i remembered he told me my innocent eyes wen i first look at him made him feel in love…i do believe in love at first sight, cuz it happned to me..n i cant believe im about to walk away from him

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 3 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

I have fallen in love at first sight. The girl never turned out to be who I had envisioned her as though. Then I realized you should really know someone well before you decide you are in love.

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Anonymous #
2 years, 2 months ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

I’m a bit late, but I think there’s no such thing as love at first sight.
The idea of falling in love with someone you don’t know is just ridiculous.
Attraction, yes. Love, no.

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