Help help: I’m being cyber bullied and i need Help NOW :’( idk - Help.com

Do you know the cyber bullies in real life?
Also what site/email account/blog/forum are you on?

You can anonymously report on Facebook.

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Report-…

Don’t ever post your phone number or address online. Not even on Facebook.

Don’t listen to them. They’re just some punks on the Internet who are bored and mean. None of what they mean is true.
Though have you posted your address on the there and do they know it?

kaylalynn2015 wrote:
I didnt post it they were able to find it out :(

it is one thing to say they are going to your house it is another thing to actually do it.

Araz wrote:
You can anonymously report on Facebook.

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Report-…

oh and do that

yes listen to blackbook668 on facebook you can report people wothout them knowing then the facebook people can see what the people have been saying and end it. they`ll never know whats hit them

Tell your parents and stay off face book. Its that easy. Hope this helps :-)

hmmm…
So you revealed it…

how does your boyfriend know these people?

have you reported it, are these people older than you?

I hope I’m not being too rude, but can I see the page where these nasty people are making the comments? Or is it private? So I can get a better sense of how to answer…

we cannot view the page, was it private messaging?

i dont mean to be rude and you dont need to answer but how old are you

There is a “block and report” option. I would do that.

Don’t go walking around by yourself now! Be careful. Tell your parents.

Can’t view. Well, if you haven’t the info up in your settings about where you live, there’s no need to worry.

before we finnish is the bullying still going on right now? have you reported them and you can also block them from talking to you which is a great idea and i think it is a good idea for you to tell your parents, id tell mine if i was in your situation.

finish** sorry about that

I feel uneasy not knowing whether the info on where you live is up or not. Can you please answer that?

your parents would feel good that you told them, i remember when i was being cyber bullied i felt so scared they were coming to get me so i didnt tell my parents, they found out by my brother being on facebook and they were more worried i didnt tell them, as soon as i told them it got better.

Report it to the police, Facebook, record all of the information and get as much evidence as you can. Write down phone numbers of the people who called you, their names, and so on. Facebook *will* release information if asked by the police.

Then their threats are most likely completely useless. You shouldn’t take them seriously. Block them and don’t look back.

yes blocking is a great idea, they wont even know you have facebook if you block them, they wont see your posts, tags or anything with your name on it.

its usually justs words, and they will try and say things to scare you, if they know it doesn’t hurt you they will get bored.

Your parents are supposed to be there for you. If you are afraid to tell them something, your relationship with them is lacking. If you can’t be open and honest with them, who can you be honest with? They went through similar experiences when they were your age, likely, so they can help.

but facebook didn’t exist when her parents were younger, facebook is a newish thing isnt it. it doesn’t always mean she isnt close to her parents it might mean she doesn’t want them not to trust her on facebook, i was in a a similar situation a few years back and i didn’t want to lose my parents trust and i was really close to them.

Not this specifically. Did they even have the internet back then? =P
But similar experiences. They know how to deal with bullies, how to deal with people who hold a grudge and try to get others to hurt you and so on. Wisdom applies to any situation.

but darksnow is right they will help you

What is it that you’re worried about them knowing by the way?

But they surely must have experienced bullying and even if they don’t get the kind of bullying your going through, they will surely understand that you are going through what they went through once as kids, minus the technology.

Why would they not trust you though?

question: can anyone on facebook see your profile or is it private? what im asking is are you friends with the bullies?

If your parents know about your facebook time then there’s no need to hide what your going through now.
I understand the difficulty of speaking to people about bullying. I was bullied in school and there was something in me that was a little ashamed. I did not want to tell because I was ashamed. At being weak. For giving in to it. For not being normal… but when I did tell… well, it didn’t solve the problem, but it took some of the feeling of hiding away and gave me some peace of mind.

so you did know them by person?

Get off facebook! its that simple! facebook = drama! when will you people learn!?!?! your being cyber bullied, yet you still get on a facebook? your setting yourself up to get bullied. theyre getting enjoyment from it. so cancel your account!!!!!

she has cancled her account

I set my Facebook account so that no one could find it or message me on it or see anything about it unless they were friends with me. I’ve gotten no hateful messages from the people who hate me because they have no way to contact me. And yet, I still kept my Facebook.
It looks like you are just generally worried about your parents distrusting you somehow from this. As if they think you did something wrong. Shouldn’t you be commended for doing so well dealing with this so far? ^^ You really, really should talk to your parents.

I have to go now. It’s late here, around 22:20. If you’ve resolved this fully by the time I get back in the morning I hope I have been of help in dealing with these nasty people.

But then afterward it’s pretty easy to block them. Also, I normally don’t just add random people ^^ I don’t trust anyone. Anyways, good luck! =)

it’s the interent, just block & delete them. it’s not that hard :D hope it all works out!!

u have the option to block them on FB … after that don’t accept any new friend request from people u don’t know.. they might enter ur friend list in fake id!!! no need to have any fear in telling ur parents coz u did nothing wrong!!!

You should call the cops…

You need to gather evidence that they are harassing you. Which is a crime even if its done online. If blocking them and reporting them to facebook doesnt make them stop or they are showing up at your house or calling you then you need to call the cops. These people could very well be people you know from school who made a fake facebook account to mess with you. If it gets worse or you feel your safty is threatend then you need to go the police and file a report. Facebook can find out who these people really are where they live what computers they use ect.

But start out by blocking them and reporting them to facebook.

as u said this could simply b ur ex or his friends trying 2 get u 2 together … unfortunately they took the wrong method…. [scaring and threating u ] 1st show ur parents their posts to u and their profile. then block them and report them.

green and purple anon, that site is a little off the point. This user is not looking for a hackers site.

cyber bullying

that’s easy

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get off the computer, problem solved :)

seems simple to me

block them and get off the computer, go play outside or something

I just have one question: Have you ever gone to 4chan.org? If you have, that may explain what is happening.

What happens in 4chan, stays in 4chan.

Anyone threatning you over the phone is doing a criminal act.
Tell them next time that you will be having the police pay them
a visit if they don’t stop this right now,and say “This is your last warning”
These are strong words to use but is nessasary to end this nonsense.