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Be strong. Emotionall, Mentaly and Spiritually.
I survive, I never give up, I work through as many problems as I can and avoid getting damage from the others. What’s going on? =)
I am, honestly I havent exploded in a LONG time, but its hard
parents work LATE, working right now, and its hard because image coming home from
school everyday to be the mother of the house at 14. Its not easy, actually its
hard I ever hardly have time for homework, and to be a kid. I cook, clean, study, take care of my brother, walk the dogs, and everything. Honestly its just hard,
and then they get home, and yell or fuss about everything I understand they’re
tired but come on now we only get two hours with them for them to be
doing that. Idk im just sooo tired of it.
I do too, I try but it is hard, I have all honors classes for next year, and
I tell them, (my parents) Im going to try but how things are at home
i dont know if I can, and if I tell them anything about it, goshh it seems like
Im telling them Ima go and kill someone.
It looks like you need to talk with them and tell them what kind of emotions you are feeling right now. When they got married, they loved each other didn’t they? What’s been happening to them? If you can talk with them about what’s going and keep them from fighting but actually dealing with issues, it’d be very helpful. It’s odd, but at times people are more mature than their parents. Sometimes ^^
You think? (: I know sometimes I feel like Im there mother, they
dont see that them doing that is also affecting my brother.
Before he would NEVER cuss or be rude, and now hes all about that,
and I tell them, and NO its ALL my fault. It does get really
annoying sometimes aswell , and I do talk to them, and tell them but
noo, again its my fault, and im being dramatic, and all this other
bull, i dont want to hear that makes the situation worse!..
My parents used to have fights as well. But since I wasn’t the one fighting, and I was off to the side, I could see what was going on. It hurt me a lot, just as they were hurting each other. But I could look at it kind of from an outside perspective. So I’d be there for a sibling and hug them, tell them things will be okay and that I care about them, and so on.
So both of them say that to you? That it’s your fault for what goes on?
I mean they fight with each other, but more with me, and sometimes my
little brother. And I mean I see everything CLEARLY, but they dont.
I have, and trust me he wasnt born to see the worst of it, and yes both
of them always saying that hes like that because of me, and that
the reason all of us fight its because of me and all this other stuff.
and I dont know what its about. I try to tell my mom to stand up for
herself because she works A LOT and that porbably why she gets home like that
and I tell her but she like no either I take the job or not
and I tell her just because we’re hispanic dont mean that they can treat
you like that, and thats what shes scared of but I cant even mention it
to her, because she starts..): , and honestly Im not even that close
to my dad, because all I got to do is say something and he starts yelling or
Have you ever tried giving them hugs? ^^ Sometimes, when I didn’t know what to say and people were upset, I just gave them hugs and told them I loved them. It sometimes stopped what was going on and reminded them of things they forgot.
no, but thanks.
Well, my favorite part about it is that a person can’t claim you are doing something wrong when you are telling them you care about them. So, ah, it normally worked for me. But good luck with whatever you choose to do =)
(: that good, im a very happy up-person but lately Ive been
going through so many rough paches because of fake friends, family
problems, school problems, and self-confidence problems..
Ah, quite a few things. But things can get better. ^^ Finding friends who won’t be fake, helping out your family, school will be difficult all the time it seems but you don’t have to deal with it all of your life (thankfully). And confidence seems to come with age, because you’ve had more experience dealing with things so you’re more sure about them.
well thats true you got some great points..
“When you make a mistake, don’t look back at it long. Take the reason of the thing into your mind and then look forward. Mistakes are lessons of wisdom. The past cannot be changed. The future is yet in your power.” - Hugh White.
I like quotes a bit. Though, I normally just go to God for help on the problems I’m facing. Oftentimes, I get a lot of good help. Sometimes I’m on my own, but that’s just the way it has to be, I guess.
how old are you?
All the information I’m willing to give out is here,
your 19? thats cool.
Yeah, it’s a fun age. Still a teenager, not quite an adult, or something? ^^
lol, yeah liberty but not all liberty lol…
Mhm, pretty much ^^
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