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I have a problem.
I am seeing this guy. I met him in a nightclub. We danced together and it was fun and.. we ended up going home together.
I don’t usually do this kind of thing, I spit up with my ex boyfriend a year ago and have been so cut up about it I haven’t even been out with anyone for a year- since we broke up. And this well just kind of happened.
Well he phoned me and wanted to see me again and we have been out on about two or three dates since.
He’s been very full on, he texts me quite a lot and phones and has said he loves me. He’s also has bought me lots of gifts everytime we keep meeting up and is generally quite sweet.
I wasn’t sure what I wanted the day after we went home together but just thought I’d see how it went. Thing is although he is a nice guy and I have enjoyed the time we’ve spent together I don’t think I want a future with him.
On some of the dates I’ve felt he is just going out with me because he knows at the end of it he will get laid! Several times I feel like he doesn’t listen to what I have to say.. he is Indian and I think his english is not all that great.. but I’m not sure if it’s that or he just has no interest in me besides sleeping with me!
He says his english is not that good.
Anyway I feel like we have some kind of friendship going on maybe. But the last two times I am beginning to find him less attractive. He has a really annoying way of kissing and last time we were together I just thought thats it I’m just not going to see him again!
But he keeps calling me and I don’t really want to just ignore his calls which is what I have been doing! Because I do like him and I think he actually likes me.. well he keeps telling me he loves me anyway. And for a moment I thought maybe I could maybe love him too. But I don’t know..
Well anyway I have had my heart set on moving away from where I live for a long time now as I want to move to London and be closer to my friends, I haven’t told him this.
What should I do? Any advice would be appreciated?..
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