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GUY ISSUES

There’s this guy i like and he say he says he likes me too. He has a girlfriend and no intentions of braking up with her. I am planing to move on. What do I tell him! help! i really do like him and i won’t want to do anything to hurt our friendship. Maybe I could say something along the lines of “I need to move on if nothings going to happen.” but sweeter please help I really like this guy.

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zjm offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Hmm, dont put your life on hold for him becuase its obvious he wont make a change for you. Just move along, something can always happen later.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

what should i say

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Exactly that. Just say that you cannot simply bring your personal life to a halt when you (him) show no signs of reciprocation. There always time for something to happen between us. Sometimes its better to let the truth be known rather then try and “sweeten” it up.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

This kind of creeps me out. I’am currently in the same situation, but I’am a guy. And on top of that the first 4 letters of your username happen to be HER name. Boy…

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (17 minutes after post)

her name is mika. whats your name. this situation sucks:(

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

thank for the help!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

My name is Zach, My user name is actually my initials. And yes, these situations absolutely suck haha. Yeah….Mika…bleh.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

it’s nice to know i’m not the only one. Zach are you gonna tell Mika?

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (30 minutes after post)

I plan on doing exactly what I just told you to do. Although it is a little more complicated, the same concept applies.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

yeah i know what mean i didn’t tell the whole story and I plan on kissing him before saying this to him.

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (11 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Kissing him?

Why are you messing around with a guy who says he’s going to stick with his girlfriend?

Why do you feel you need to tell him that you’re moving on? He has a girlfriend!

There’s nothing to move on FROM!

Just go your way and forget about this guy!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 day after post)

thanks he’s a jerk it ending NOW!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

Good for you! Now, find a decent guy . . . and just say NO to any and all dirtbags!

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