What stops people from changing themselves?
My friend who was trying to positively change me for nearly two years, is fed up with it, because she’s too hurt by how I keep falling back into old habits, and retain selfish and stubborn behavior. It doesn’t help at all that I don’t seem to have common sense or be able to mature into the age I am now.. For that whole time, she treated me like someone that she would have wanted to be treated as, and beyond, when she went out of her way to try to help me to change. But I never treated her back as a friend, made her unhappy, and never truly changed. I want to know why that is.. other than the reasons of selfishness and stubbornness.
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