how do you make someone go away?
this is a serious question, so please don’t give answers that would be illegal or funny.
i had been antagonized by a persistent semi-stalker for about a year. he was my lab partner and we studied together, but he thought we were best buddies and started calling and texting me every second, and trying to have every meal with me and do everything together. i sat him down, told him i had started dating someone (a lie) and that he had to get out of my life forever, that we would never speak again. he sent me a bunch of pitiful e-mails, texted me asking why, and i saw his car outside my house and he sped away when i came out. i changed my number, muted his e-mails and resolved never to respond to a single thing he said, and things improved a lot.
however, i just received an e-mail from him (which somehow escaped my filter) and i feel like someone just tore my world apart. he’s invading my privacy, trying to get me to “say just one or two words” to him, but i just want him out of my life.
i’ve considered saying “i’m a sociopath, go away”. but i don’t want to say a single word because i don’t want him hanging on. plus, he might still want me even if i was a sociopath, who knows.
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