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Is moving in with someone you have dated for three months crazy?

Meet a women and have been dating her for almost three months and I feel like I have never felt before, we are always staying over each others houses anyway so is it to soon or if you truly love some can it work so soon??

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Anonymous #
2 years, 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

it depends…
is it serious?

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Anonymous #
2 years, 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

yes it can

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solman223 offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

It is very serious we both are very much inlove and want to spend as much time with each other as we can.

Anonymous wrote:
it depends…
is it serious?

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Anonymous #
2 years, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

then just enjoy being with each other.

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solman223 offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Does that mean we should just continue to stay over each others place or should we move in together?

Anonymous wrote:
then just enjoy being with each other.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

solman22 wrote:
It is very serious we both are very much inlove and want to spend as much time with each other as we can.

Anonymous wrote:
it depends…
is it serious?

so long as its serious, then probably not too crazy. Theres always a risk in taking the next step, so long as both of you have agreed and are willing and on the same page about things (who does what ie cleaning, shopping etc.) it shouldn’t be too much of a problem.

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Anonymous #
2 years, 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

well how old are you both?

if you both live together, everything is going to change. unless you wanna marry her, dont move in.

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solman223 offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I am 28 and she is 22 and I do want to marry her and she feels the same way just don’t know if I can wait till we arfe married to wake up next to her every day.

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Anonymous #
2 years, 2 months ago (23 hours, 25 minutes after post)

any marriage is a gamble. its never too early or too late for anything. if you both feel happy with each other just go for it.
its hard to feel happy with anyone so if you are happy with someone who is happy with you too, then go for broke.
dont let fears get the better of you. nobody has a perfect life but you can have your ups and downs together.

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Dreamsinc offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

Hey I think if you both see this move in the same way then go for it. But know living together full time takes work and understanding on both sides. Love is realy like a flower if you don’t tend to it well have a harder chance to grow. Talking about everything is the best way to go. So with that I wish you two the best.

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