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Is it possible that true love is never meant to last?

I know Ive found it, but I also know how frightening and painful it is. Is it better to have a lasting relationship and family with someone whom you simply get along with and can cooperate with? This chaos is so much. Its hard to love and know you can never really have someone.

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Anonymous #
2 years, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Not possible. I’ve seen true love. It’s beautiful.

I will never forget the young man who announced to an entire audience. “My wife is an amazing, beautiful woman whom I never deserved.” It brought me to tears.

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Faith&Reason offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

there is no general answer to the question you’re asking, because it depends on the many facets of a person, multiplied by two for the other person, then by a factor of 50 for the situation, then there’s the age-old equivocation on what love even is.

YOU are the best judge, and YOU have to give it your all if you want to keep it, just like anything else. love is work, and yes you have to fight for it. even then, you may not win. but it’s a great battle.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

How could you have true love with someone without being able to cooperate or get along with them?
Of course, if you love them a lot, you will care a lot. So it will be easy for problems to occur, because you do care. Apathy is the best way to have no problems, because you genuinely have no emotions to get entangled with others in. However, love will be by far the better. It may cause problems, it may be hard, but if you are honest and do your best to work through things… The payoff will be tremendous.

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RiYu offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

True love lasts :) The problem though is that people choose practicality rather than follow what they feel. But what’s the use of practicality / stability when you’re not happy?

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writing=life mostly offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (45 minutes after post)

Few things last forever
Life doesn’t last
love dosent last
Friends don’t last
Sadness doesn’t last
Fear doesn’t last
Happiness doesn’t last
But some things do last
Memories last
Memories are priceless
You don’t have to live in real time
Live in the memories
And nothing else will matter
Memories never fade

Faith&Reason offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (47 minutes after post)

writing=life mostly wrote:
Few things last forever
Life doesn’t last
love dosent last
Friends don’t last
Sadness doesn’t last
Fear doesn’t last
Happiness doesn’t last
But some things do last
Memories last
Memories are priceless
You don’t have to live in real time
Live in the memories
And nothing else will matter
Memories never fade

we will not tell your folks ;)

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writing=life mostly offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (48 minutes after post)

Faith&Reason wrote:

writing=life mostly wrote:
Few things last forever
Life doesn’t last
love dosent last
Friends don’t last
Sadness doesn’t last
Fear doesn’t last
Happiness doesn’t last
But some things do last
Memories last
Memories are priceless
You don’t have to live in real time
Live in the memories
And nothing else will matter
Memories never fade

we will not tell your folks ;)

thanks

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (50 minutes after post)

If it doesn’t last and is not shared by both, then it is not True Love.

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nbrock92 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

real true love is hard work a relationship is never 50/50 somedays you will give alot and other days you will take alot if you truly love each other never go to bed mad always tell the truth no matter what without trust there is no relationship

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (2 hours, 50 minutes after post)

Doing anything for a very long time starts to become hard work. I mean even eating ice cream would be tough if that was all you had…… No matter how perfect the other person is eventually they will rub you the wrong way and you just have to be able to get over it and go on.

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