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I am researching love and lust and need help on the subject and do not know what to think, what do u guys think?

*edit* can you guys help me out?

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a1a2a3a4a5a6a7a8a9a0 offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Canton, PA, US | 3 years, 4 months ago (16 minutes after post)

thinks for the advice. but i do to like woman
but there is a part of me missing. the part that makes me love some one.

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a1a2a3a4a5a6a7a8a9a0 offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Canton, PA, US | 3 years, 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

thank you

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 3 years, 4 months ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

Sounds to me as if you are a disappointed romantic. You wanted something lofty and ideal but now you think everything was sordid, so now you’re bitter. Well, that’s okay. It really does happen to all of us. Just ride out this period. And I suggest you make your peace with Lust. Happy relationships often have equal measures of both sexual passion and more altruistic love.

Anyhow, I assure you that you’ll feel more normal soon enough and one day you will find another chance to truly fall in love again. Frankly, you might be the person who falls in love very rarely, but eventually it is going to happen. Probably when you stop looking for it, in fact. Just don’t be a hermit in the meantime. Keep interacting with people and making new friends, and stay open to the possibility of finding somebody great.

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help.
i find it hard to love or like any one any more.
it all started about 6-7 months ago. i liked this girl alot and i wanted to tell her, but first i wanted to become a better personson. i started thinking about myself and then i stsrted thinking what i liked about her. then it hit me. i relized how i felt. i found out that i thought it was love but it was Lust. and all the girls i ever liked or love was just Lust also. so ever since then i have never liked, loved, or even lust a girl again.
but i wish i could get that feeling back again way more then any thing on earth. i miss how it felt holding, huging, kissing, and what i thought was loveing a girl.
the more days that go by, the more it becomes worst. ever since this happened ive became a jerk. please someone help me i realy need it. im geting tired of my life.

im 17 years old

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