friends help: am i asking too much?

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am i asking too much?

physical (at least 2/4)
Be able to ski (or at least able to let me teach you and not be stubborn about it)
no yellow teeth
be able take care of your skin
be willing to go hiking/camping

vices (no more than 1)
too distant
too arrogant
close minded
smoker/ pothead

attributes (2/6)
spontaneous
adventurous
intuitive (just a little is enough!)
driven
ambitious
appreciate my sense of humour or at least have one yourself

skill
you go to uni
you have a hobby (music, volunteering. anime and gaming don’t count)
you can cook
you have a job

bonus points(worth 1/2 each)
you can drive
you younger that 22
you like dubstep
you can figure out what i’m thinking (worth 1000000 points)
you would get along with my familiy things

thing i can live with:you put me second to your hobbies, guy friends or study sometimes.you like to party. you live at home. you’re a jock. you (don’t) like pda’s. you like anime manga/ gaming. you’re shy/ depressed. you’re a little too confident/ outspoken

am i asking too much? gah how can i not find anyone in 2 years to even date. i can’t find anyone i even think is going to give as much as i do.
(which is ski instructor, working uni student, has a sense of humour, cute, like going on weekend getaways to my parents snow property or beach house, cooks, is amazing in bed, doesn’t like being bought things, isn’t clingy, will get along with your friends no matter what, is generally always happy and so nice to everyone, has a good body, runs a uni club and is therefore very social/connected, clear skin, laid back, is half asian without acting asian)

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silverlight77 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

i think i passed but … not shure well youll find the one and just saying its actualy kinda fun to see if i pass although i went over some of the -/-

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Anonymous #
2 years, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

it shouldn’t be that hard to pass but why is it that all guys i know disappoint me :’(

AshLynn 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

Noone can say your asking for too much but you, and since you’re asking others, maybe you think ur own wants in a significant other are unrealistic. If you find your perfect someone, that’s great, but you could be missing out on tons of great people just because they’re not ” the whole package” Gl to u :)

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Perigee 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (40 minutes after post)

I dunno; it’s possible there are a lot of guys who meet your criterion - but you just don’t meet theirs.

bobosnickums 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

Yes, you are asking too much.
Its not a job interview they’re coming for, jeez.

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.Eli. 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

You’re asking for WAAAAAAAAY too much.
Stop being demanding of people and good ones will come to you.

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Zirbel 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (4 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Love and partnership have nearly nothing to do with any kind of rational evaluation!
Come off it!
Discover your gut feeling or stay alone as a rationalistic nerd for ever.

Dr. Ozy 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (17 hours, 26 minutes after post)

a relationship isn’t about what the other person can provide for you, it’s about how you value about the other person. besides, a guy who passes your test could still be a jerk. i think that if you have a talented bf/bg, you should be GRATEFUL of their every attribute, not expect it from them as a dating requirement.

“i can’t find anyone i even think is going to give as much as i do.”

how do you even know what you’re willing to give for a relationship? every relationship is unique to the person you’re with and the type of way you wish to relate to them. you don’t even know you’re own limits in a relationship until you try it. many people wonder why their partner does things and reacts in a way that bothers them, and they never even stop to realize that it’s possible that they are not even reaching their own expectations of giving to a relationship. and i’ll say again, that even your test would not be able to tell the extent that a person is willing to give for a relationship with you.

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