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I have a twin sister, who lives 500 miles away from me.

She is ADHD, and characteristics of Narcisstic Personality Disorder. She is in her second marriage. She has two daughters, one to husband, and one to ex-husband. One is 23, the other 15. My twin has made it a point to always involve everyone in family affairs, I was hospitalized in ICU 30 years ago for a suicide attempt, and she called everyone I knew. She tells everybody about family business,especially my business. She has gotten into fights with her daughter’s friends,and posted stuff on their facebook pages, and parents complained to the school. She recently butted in on a conversation I was having on facebook, and tried turning it around to be about her. I asked her to stop, and in doing so, threw her into a rage and she started posting lies about me on fb. I block her and she gets on her daughter’s page….what can I do to stop her? She even called all her friends and relatives and told them the night her daughter had sex for the first time! She has no shame and she has no boundaries.

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ticdoffus offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

i’d have nothing to do with her anymore shes obviously out of control…

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kpereira61 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

I’ve cut all ties. It’s always everybody else who has the problem, never her. Can’t confront her, puts her into a rage. She’s a rage-a-holic. It’s like nobody can stop her. She puts this stuff up and what if a prospective employer saw it and didn’t hire me?

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

Notify Farcebook and let them know that there could be legal action if offensive postings are not removed!

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