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I am so lost.
I’m 24, living in vegas, and have been dating my GF for about 3 years now. She is the most genuine person I have ever met. She has told me that I am her life, and the only person she has ever loved in her life.She accepts me for all my faults. Just like other posts, when it comes to settling down, I just don’t see myself doing it with her. She is 33, and has a 10yr old. I wanted who ever I had a kid with for it to both be our firsts. She has let herself go since I met her. She used to be the envy of a ton of guys, but over the last 3 years she has prob put on 30-40lbs. I am no longer attracted to her. To make things worse, I have been paying all our bills for the last 5 months, including our rent of $1100, all the utilities, and phone bills. I feel that If I leave her, I will be uncompleted. No one has ever loved me more than her in my life. She has no family in Vegas, and Idk where she will live if we break our lease and go our separate ways. I feel like if I was single, I could be the person I want to be, hang out with who I want to, and do what I want to.
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