I want to know how messed up this is.
A little bit of info before I start off. I’m a 16 year old male with extreme shyness.
Okay now the thing is, there is a girl I have been talking to since the begining of December. I’ll refer to her as S. I have been talking to her and really like her but the thing is she has a boyfriend, thankfully he lives in a diffrent town than me. I’ll refer to him as B. S nearly cheated on him with me, went through a break up, almost went out with me, but in the end got back with the guy. B treats her like she is nothing. I’m always hearing from S that “He’s yelling at me and just called me a ****” (she showed me her phone as proof) or “He isn’t comming to my 17th birthday because of a trip” (her birthday is soon). S wants me to go to places with her, and wants to talk nonstop to butI’ve been talking to her for five months now and I am tired of waiting and cheering her up because of a heartless dirt bag. S even told me that it will never happen between us, though she still likes me. I figured that if nothing is going to happen, then I mind as well go for another girl.
I met another girl, I’ll refer to her as C. C is a cute girl, and I like her alot. Thing is, she wanted the relationship to go fast and I haven’t even asked her out. S became so jelous, she threatened to beat the crap out of C. S yelled at her through texts, and C believed that I didn’t want to be around her. She attempted suicide, thank god she lived. Though after hearing from some of C’s friends, she is really emotional and legaly insane and I don’t think I can deal with that kind of stuff, plus I also found out she had a fiance in the state she moved from. She understands that I won’t be with her and we’re good friends now. C’s and S’s friendship was shaken up from this, but they are friends again which is good.
I guess I have two questions. Most of my friends that are girls all have dirt bag boyfriends. Why would they go out with people like that?
My other one is this: How many of you think S had a right to be that jelous?
Ya know, I got two more questions. To be honest, I still like S. We still like eachother and still talk constantly and tell eachother how much we like the other even though she still has a dirt bag boyfriend. How many of you think I still have a chance with her?
My last one is, how crazy do you guys think this is?
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