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My dad asked me to have sex with him 5 years ago when I was 15.
We didn’t have sex but should I tell anyone?
So its eating me up inside. I’m married now and have told my husband. I’ve also told my sister but I don’t think she believes. My dad use to be my hero but after the incident things are awkward now. It all started out with him comming to my room with and trying to get out of me if I was sexually active. He then said that every dad was teaching their daughters who to have sex so they aren’t nervous when they really have sex with their boy friends. He also said that he talked to my mom about it and she agreed that I have sex with him so that i knew what sex felt like and I could learn from him. I was grossed out! He got in my bed ( i was still in bed) and laid next to me. thankfully i had a car at the time and my liscence so i ran out of the room and drove off. I don’t know if i should tell my mom and brothers. I feel like I shouldn’t because nothing actually happened. but again i feel that it was wronge for my dad to try to trick me into having sex with him. What makes me sick is that he said he was trying to help me out and that he didn’t want to do it but because he wanted the best for me and wanted to help me he would have sex with me. I mean I told my sister but I feel like she doesn’t believe me because to everyone in this world my dad is so respected and such, so I know its hard for others to think he could do that. but it did happen! he did ask me! and try to persuade me. I just think everyone will think i’m a fat liar. I know everyone will think i’m a liar. Even though nothing happened, should I tell the rest of my family members or no?
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