Love help: Why don’t guys like me? - Help.com

I guess you just have to keep on looking Queen thers a guy out there for you somewhere I know all the guys on chat like ya

Well, since I am the moderator and know these things, I can confirm Queen is not the post writer, she was just rounding up some people who might have some advice. (Here is where I raise a quizical eyebrow at Lobo.)

Personally, I think this is just something Anonymous has to be patient about. I can’t say what your problem is or if you even have a problem. You sound young, and it may be that you are looking for a relationship when guys your age are just looking to screw around without real commitment. But if you are patient, eventually a good prospect may come your way. Also, don’t give up and stop meeting new people.

Do you love yourself?

Oh wait. I was fooled about who wrote the post to begin with. My apologies to Lobo who seems to have been accidentally associated as the posts’s writer. This is a bug I will get fixed.

Not sure. There is something buggy going on here. Anyone who touches this post get’s attached as the owner. Like I said, I’m reporting this issue to ChuySkywalker so it can get fixed.

okay - thank you :) give me a shout whenever he gets it fixed, hehe it is kind of funny when you think about it….

Ok….whose post is this???

NOT MINE!!!

I don’t know whose it is……but I would never write something like this.

It is…..and did you notice that no one has ‘claimed’ it yet? lol

LOL sure u do..

Im an Artsy person too, I do ballet, love jazz and classical, and I once only whore black and dark colors in my life. I LOVE rocker bois! But I am not like that anymore (clothing wise)

U can’t change who u are, but maybe the clothing is affecting ur relationships with the nice shy guys you want. But that is all against what I believe in, changing the way u r and stuff that is.

Im not a good flirt either. When flirt it’s either too shy, or to loud and crazy. This is something you can’t rele help.

Don’t think you are hopless. I used to date the guys that turned out to be Bisexual at the end of the realtionship, and that was somthing I didn’t want. But eventually this guy I am dating is evrything I have dreamed of, even tho we r going thru rough times.

Don’t think ur love-life is over, let love come too you and eventually the rite giy will find you. Date other people, and people who like you. I NEVER wanted to date a jock, but I am and it has been wonderful so far. and I love him, so give some of these guys a chance too, u never kno what u will find. But don’t looked too hard, that will discourage you cuz that is how I can get, let everything come to you.

Patience is the key, that’s wut I found out! : )

I’ve got kind of the same problem, except the other way around. Im a guy, and none of the girls like me. I dont know what to do either.
Just try not worrying about it for a while. If you dont put yourself out there, the guys will think, “hey, she’s not a slut. she seems pretty nice.” And then they’ll talk to you. It might not work for a while, but then when you are going to give up, it’ll happen.

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its not over hun. U know inside that u are perfect. Just wait and see who comes to you and maybe try someone in that range of people who you dont wanna date you may be suprised. Boys dont express their feelings someone you like could like you alot they may just not act like it. so keep ur head up and keep truckin u’ll be fine!!