Love help: I’ve lost the trust of the girl I love

keisuke

I’ve lost the trust of the girl I love

I was stupid and I havent shown how important she was for me
Now she cant trust me and I’m losing her.. The most important person in my life ..
What can I do right now? She dont answer my calls and messages and dont want to meet me..

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keisuke changed the tags on this post: they were "Right Now, Right Now, She Was, Answer, stupid, Person, trust, Meet, Love, lost" 2 years, 1 month ago.

Help me with: Life / Death?

A-Cortex 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

What did you do?

Help me with: Considering getting a second job, BUT.

Dyal 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

what u did ?

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keisuke 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

I ignored her.. She is very paranoid about all my conversations with other girls who are just friends .. In the past I had confessed to her how I felt but then I took another girl .. I never had any contact with her, not write, not call and I blame her for all this .. The truth is that I’m afraid to suffer and so I tried to avoid her..
But for me she’s very important and now are I’m ready to do whatever is necessary to fix things …. But right now she dont answer me, and I dont know where to start..

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babacup 7 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (28 minutes after post)

Just write her a letter explaining how you really feel. I don’t mean an email, I mean a letter. A letter says that you really put some thought into your words and that you really care.

Help me with: Oh life there must be more

Z-Anonymous 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (32 minutes after post)

@keisuke be prepared that she may not give you another chance… if she is a smart girl she knows a boys actions speak louder than his words. there are some boys who don’t treat girls very well…like they will work in the chase of the girl..but once the girl says yes..they ignore her and take up with other girls
smart girls learn not to give these boys a second chance…cause it just leads to more heart ache

@babacup - a letter is a good idea- but even that might not work

Dyal 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (41 minutes after post)

she will talk to you my friend don’t loose heart !
talk to her write a letter yes !
if she ignore u don’t give up !
if u really love her show her how much u love her.

everyday try to talk to her she will talk to u :)

try !

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keisuke 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)

She means everything to me.. I’m a ” bit ” depressed.. Just get drunk everyday like a very stupid guy.. I don’t wanna really lose her, that hurts me like never before.. I’m totally honest.. I just want her with me, I would do anything to fix this painfull situation..

Help me with: Life / Death?

keisuke 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (51 minutes after post)

the dyal wrote:
she will talk to you my friend don’t loose heart !
talk to her write a letter yes !
if she ignore u don’t give up !
if u really love her show her how much u love her.

everyday try to talk to her she will talk to u :)

try !

Thanks man.. I will keep to try even though it hurts, this really motivate me.. :)

Help me with: Life / Death?

babacup 7 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 2 years, 1 month ago (57 minutes after post)

keisuke wrote:
She means everything to me.. I’m a ” bit ” depressed.. Just get drunk everyday like a very stupid guy.. I don’t wanna really lose her, that hurts me like never before.. I’m totally honest.. I just want her with me, I would do anything to fix this painfull situation..

First you need to fix youself. You can not sit around drinking and feeling sorry for yourself, that is not going to make her want to be with you. That is going to do the opposite of what you are wanting.

Help me with: Oh life there must be more

keisuke 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

babacup wrote:

keisuke wrote:
She means everything to me.. I’m a ” bit ” depressed.. Just get drunk everyday like a very stupid guy.. I don’t wanna really lose her, that hurts me like never before.. I’m totally honest.. I just want her with me, I would do anything to fix this painfull situation..

First you need to fix youself. You can not sit around drinking and feeling sorry for yourself, that is not going to make her want to be with you. That is going to do the opposite of what you are wanting.

Yeah I know that.. But right now I’m a bit depressed like I said before.. For me it’s sufficient that she answers to me.. So I can feel better and fix everything..

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t-tiger 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Good luck with it all. I agree with the letter writing as it shows you really do want this to work and don’t give up. Keep doing the little but meaningful things and hopefully she soon will see that you want this so much. Give up on the drinking….most girls won’t be too eager to run back to someone who drinks lots.

Hope it works out..x

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dexisnedonna #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (1 year, 7 months after post)

stop it.. because once the trust was lost its really hard to bring it back again.. so sad to say but its true its really hard to bring back everything for the trust that was lost

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