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Hy, firstly: i am romanian, f a c k ing est europe, I HAVE PROBLEM WITH GIRS
So i’m 16 yesrs old, live in a small city somewhere in romania.
Let’s begin my story: about two month ago a girl (named Bia, 15 yeard old) meet’s me, she was so cute and have everything i ever wanted from a girl. We deep falling in love, at least me, we get together, after 3 perfect weeks, she suddenly wand to break up, i was “shoot in the heart”, she told me that she have some family problems (fake break-up reason) and that she dont want to break up but she need’s to. After a week i’m thinking that a get over her. I start dateing other girl, at the fist date(today) the new girl told me to go home cuz she need to go with other girls for a walk, but this is a other story. Now my exgirlfrend have an boyfrend, also I realized that i still love Bia. Also the thing that my exgirlfrend left me i dont know, Bia said that i never know the reason why.
Now i am very sad and angry, i dont know what to do… please help me, i am a very sensitive guy and very afraid about a depression :((
I know that my problem sound’s a little like a non-problem, but it hurts very much, i can’t get Bia out of my head and my heart.
Sorry my english!
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Hire, in romania, times are tough from at leat 20 years, but this is an other story, that make me sad!
Do you think that i tell her my feeling will change her mind? Afroid for a big laugh at me.
I told her that i will wait for comming back, this in very next day after break-up!
I want to fall asleep and wake-up in a better world :((, like heaven :((.
You are from Romania? Thank u for MAGICA!!! Love that band! Listen to “We Are Horde”, all your problems will go away. U will have the confidence you need with or without this girl, and your future will be much better.
About this girl though, I think she might get scared if she knows you like her too much. I’m not sure. So she said that you will never know the reason why, or she will never know the reason why you two broke up? Which one of you? If it’s you, tell her your feelings, and ask her to tell you the real reason, she owes you that. Doesn’t matter if it hurts or not, it will still help if you find out. If she won’t tell, tell her you demand to know. I guess you have nothing to lose, right? It might work, it might not. But if it does, at least it will bring you closure. And, she probably won’t forget you easily if she really knows how you feel.
Oh, I forgot to say, don’t take advice from me, I have no luck w girls either. But at least you have a chance still!
i am trying my harest to say something that will make you feel better as your last comment is very sad. Your heart is broken and I know that it is horrible thing but you will feel better again.
You could ask her to be honest with you and tell you the truth about why she did it but you may not like what you hear though. Maybe it will help you move on?
don’t tell her. She left, got to respect her right to choose. Hurts like hell for a while though.
Maybe in time she might like you again, or someone else will.
Do cool stuff you like. Bring out the best in you, girls like that sort of thing, give you confidence.
Hmmm… i will try to ask her for the reason or maybe i will ask a goodfrend of her.
Thx desertgalleon for the song, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SoOSY-… , really make me feel better!
chunkymove wrote:
don’t tell her. She left, got to respect her right to choose. Hurts like hell for a while though.Maybe in time she might like you again, or someone else will.
Do cool stuff you like. Bring out the best in you, girls like that sort of thing, give you confidence.
I agree with all this. If a guy is cool and doing fun stuff girls like that. Just be yourself and be happy thats the best thing.
:-? , before post here i wanted to show her my feelings, but i see on facebook her new relationship status, “In relationship with … ”
Move on then. Someone has just broke my heart and as much as i’d like it all to be how it was it can’t so go try and enjoy yourself. You deserve better.
… seconds ago, one of my frend send me this link http://www.urbandictionary.com/define… ;))…
Rofl, that wasn’t the song I was thinking of, but it is good too! That one is by Queen originally. The one I was thinking of is:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TPRXZT…
it is by romanian band “Magica”. They are really good! Thanks
Oh, and the “Bia” definition had such interesting meanings too :)
if you love her still, you can’t be a friend yet.
Going to hurt, and I never took advice when I was where you are.
Best of luck
Thnaks you guys for advices and listen to my problem, i really feel better, not much bat enough for little optimistic thinking!
I am still open for new advices :)
how old are you? 16. hmmm
get some male friends to hang out with.
Learn to play the guitar.
get a hat.
Girls love popular boys, and it give you chance to learn social skills and makes you easier to approach and more fun to be with.
Girls love the musical, emotionally connected thang.
A hat give her something to steal off you.
And also remember, not all girls are the same, but at 15, they all seem to try to be :-)
“A hat give her something to steal off you.” ;)), i have some caps, i will wear them more frequent. Be sure that i will hang out with male frends ;).
Bia take guitar lessons :))
you sound like a fun guy, you’ll find a girl soon enough.
You like guitar? Doing anything creative is good, so best to do something you like.
I am a creative guy, i think, i do adobe photoshop work very well, here are some of my images http://hi5.com/friend/photos/displayP… :)
I dont know if i like/dislike guitar, never tried, and is kind’a expensive here, 100$ for a guitar and medium month income for an romanian is 300$ :(
hmm, maybe not guitar then. Keep doing your things man. Good luck. Bed time for me.
thanks man, you really make my evening better ;), good luck to you too
Glad you’re feeling better. You sound like a nice guy. Girls would be mad not to see what a great guy you are.
t-tiger wrote:
Glad you’re feeling better. You sound like a nice guy. Girls would be mad not to see what a great guy you are.
Thx, i hope so :). I’m feeling better, not good, but is better. The thnig is that I recover little of my self confidence.
Good. I’m pleased.
I like your pictures…really good!!
Thanks, there are only a few, some of my first…
Life is not always great! But you can be great!How? If you can find any piece of good everywhere! Find yourself another ocupation! Love is not everything! Try!
Have a nice life!
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