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I Need Help!

…As You May See On My Previous Problem By Boyfriend Dumped Me Bla Bla Bla…Well Anyway…I Am Alone In The House And I Am Not Alowed Out Anywhere And I Have Nothing To Do…I Am So Tempted To Slit My Wrists…I Have Cut Myself On The Back Of My Hand Many Times Form Depression But I Am So Tempted To Slit My Wrists…What Can I Do So I Dont?

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San Francisco, CA, US | 2 years, 9 months ago (0 minutes after post)

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stayci_ray offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Think about the fact there’s other fish in the pond sharks in the sea and hurting yourself is NOT going help what u should do is give yourself a make-over to get a new guy a better one at that try something new with ur hair do ur nails give yourself a facial.

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LoftyJoshy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

throw the knifes out of the house so it will be to cold to go get one then open your bible and read the book of John in the new testimont.

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stayci_ray offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I bellieve u can do it!!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Not cut yourself just throw everything sharp where u can not touch it!!

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I[[Heart]]F.O.B offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Wtf I Dont Have A Bible!…I Cant Throw The Sharp Things Out Because I Live With My Family And They Have To Use The Knifes And Stuff!

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 2 years, 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Well, I’m glad you are here and reaching out. Anyhow, why are you contemplating suicide? Over a boyfriend who dumped you? He is so not worth it.

I’m not saying rejection doesn’t hurt, but keep things in perspective. There defintely wil be other boyfreinds and other loves. You life is not over. Have some faith in your future possibilities. Even if it’s hard to feel it, don;t give up hope! Things won’t always be this bad. Often times it is just a matter of patience. Time does heal wounds and it does bring new opportunities…

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LoftyJoshy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Go to Bible.com

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I[[Heart]]F.O.B offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (13 minutes after post)

No Thanks I Dont Believe In Bible Sutff

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (29 minutes after post)

dang y would u do that u are so pretty and have so much too look forward too so y would u do that just out of anger
y r u soo angery?
there are other guys out there

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I[[Heart]]F.O.B offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (33 minutes after post)

I Know There Is But I Always Think Im Over Him…Then I See Him And Realise Im Not…I H8 Mii Life!!

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Nowhereman offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Bandeirante, 29, BR | 2 years, 9 months ago (57 minutes after post)

The pic does not show the hair real well….but you look good….and if you are like most ladies… .you change your hair often to accent your beautiful features…. cheers!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

i have the same thoughts that u do i might even dream the dreams that u do all of us girls are the same we think about things but sometimes we still can’t figure out what to do… but hey the answers to ur problems are not in ur rists

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Gods Ga Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Homerville, GA, US | 2 years, 9 months ago (3 hours, 38 minutes after post)

ummmm………………………………….. i dono but hes a male theres tons of them get over it and move on all men are the same so have fun but yr boyfriend isnt worth it and dont be cutting yrself thats really stupid and you need to prove him wrong and let him know you dont have to have him your better by yr self but get over it and move on

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Steve7 offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Dying is permanent. Your life has much more meaning! You’re not replaceable! Don’t throw away your only life over some guy is not a good decision. Seems like you’re young, and your ex-bf may be your first love, but trust me there will be other loves after him.

It may be hard for you to understand now because you’re still young, but later on you’ll realize that there’s more to life than just a guy. Don’t you want to raise a family later on? Don’t you want to travel? You can accomplish many great things with your life, so don’t throw it all away.

One more thing: I know you said you don’t believe in the bible, and you probably have other stuff on your mind. But, I suggest you give it a try. When I’m down in the dumps, I read the bible and pray. It helps me get through tough times. Yes, believing in God is a matter of faith, but you have realize that we didn’t descend into this life through some dust particle. God created us; we exist because of a supernatural. It is why we have a soul, and a spirit, and the ability to love and feel.

Well, I’m done preaching to you, but I hope you take my advice. You are important. You are unique to this world.

God Bless,
Steve

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