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I was out with a couple of friends when suddenly one

of them walked off and one of the others followed and no one was talking to me, apart from my best friend. And she said to me that it might be because peopel hate me because i try acting like them to try and fit in. And i dont now what to do. Do i stay friends with them or let them talk about me behind my back?

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BANCHEE offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sudbury, ON, CA | 2 years, 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I would get new friends and try to be yourself.

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princess_dani offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I am trying to and i have made some new friends and acting my self but its not working

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europa offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Well they don’t seem to be real friends anyway. I know how that feels, it is hard to be a teenager. You really can’t act like yourself, because you don’t know who you are…

Find more loyal friends.

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princess_dani offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

but how? u cnt jst make friends like tht

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BANCHEE offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sudbury, ON, CA | 2 years, 9 months ago (37 minutes after post)

start hanging ou in new places to meet new people have fun introduce yourself

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MF_Dancer offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (3 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Do u have anything new u want to try, any talents you can take control of (dance, orchestra, sports…etc.) U mite want to start somthing new to meet new friends. Anyone who is into only “their” style are stupid and need to get a hold of life! They dn’t seem to be good friends if they are treatig you like that and you shouldn’t worry about what people think, cuz no matter what u look like and who u ru u rock in ur own way! Being urself is so important!

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Steve7 offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

They’re not your friends to begin with if they are talking trash about you. Remember to always be yourself and don’t try so hard to fit in.

Your true friends should like you for who you are.

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Chang offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

I was watching “Thumbsucker” the other day on DVD which is really a quite great movie.

I think they quoted something from a recovery manual that said, “don’t compare your insides with other peoples’ outsides.”

I suspect that means that a lot of people seem confident on the outside but may actually be quite insecure on the inside.

I personally don’t like people who are too secure. I suspect they may just be missing something, power hungry or both. There are all sorts of fantastic reasons to be insecure but wanting to be liked is a trap which allows others to control you, it seems.

Your best friend gave you some insight anyway. Don’t try to act like others. Other people aren’t that great.

People sometimes think I’m great and I happen to know I’m not. Please don’t tell anyone. If they find out, I’m doomed. DOOMED, I say.

Good luck

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number5forev offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

i went thru d same thing a few years ago, i confronted them and dey said sry 4 years on things could never b better with em

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

well if they are talking about you, then there not worth it, i think u should be yourself and find new friends who like the way you are

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