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I don’t know whether my life is going good or bad?

I try to measure out the Pro’s and Con’s.

Pro: I am about to complete my MBA, I have a well off successful Mother, Father, Brother and Sister that are amazing, I am in great shape, I have a loving beautiful girlfriend that I am getting serious with.

Con: I am unemployed living at in my friends basement, he also has two other loser roommates that smoke pot all day and don’t even have a high school education. I don’t have a penny to my name and all I want is to marry my girlfriend and move in to a house together, I was fired from my job 2 months ago, by the time I graduate my MBA I will have racked up 15 Grad in debt, All my girlfriends friends are engaged by guys that seem to be able to manage their lives.

I guises I need to stop ******** and start working harder but its weird cause someday I wake up and am so thankful for the life I have and think wow I have it made, then other days I wake up in despair thinking I’m 26 and at this rate I won’t be able to start a family for another 4 years.

Any insight is appricated.

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2 years ago (5 minutes after post)

Sounds like a great life to me. A first class bird (that’s English slang for a lady), a Masters degree, ONLY $15,000 debt, not that much by US standards, your health and sanity, it’s a good life. All you have to do is finish your MBA, get a job and then that leads to fianancial stability, you have a girl who loves you, not your money (you haven’t got any) then the home, kids etc. You have a good life. Yours is a wonderful life. Honest. Enjoy and give thanks to the Lord, many men would love to be in your shoes.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (7 minutes after post)

I think you already know what you need to do, you just need someone to recognise it. Consider it done.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (13 minutes after post)

just get yourself back out there and apply for jobs. check with your college to see if you can get into any internships or if there are any good career options that they can hook you up with.

take it slow with your girl. it sounds like it’s going good places, but don’t rush it. :)

i’ll be in worse debt than you when i graduate, so good luck to both of us. ;)

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

I would say you have deffinitely more PROs than cons. All your pros are steady things; your education, your girlfriend, your family! Thats the main things in life. Then your cons is just a monetary situation; you will get a better job, get married and move. You just have to deal with it now, but it wont be forever. You have what counts, so dont get discouraged :)

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