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perhaps she doesn’t like that you like her? i don’t know, people sometimes drift apart. and sometimes outgoing people are more attracted to people they haven’t known for a long time because they are new and interesting. you and this girl just might not be as compatible as you think. it may even be that she’ll do this to every guy she gets close to.

mm, I agree with Ozy. It makes me sad to tell you, because you obviously have strong feelings for this girl, but I think that she has moved on to your friend, and that you need to try to move on to.

Yeah, I understand. When you’ve had feelings for someone for a long time, it can be really diffiult. But you just have to try and focus on other things.. your friends, your education, your family. Maybe if you have messages from her and things you could delete them? That often helps. Yes, you’re right, it is easier said than done, it’s very difficult, but you sound strong, I bet you can do it.

Yes, that’s a good idea- hobbies. They often distract you. Even the tiniest things, like reading, can help- (as long as it’s not a depressing book!) Yes, I hope that you do get past this soon, you sound like you deserve to! Yes, I understand. That feeling often is there for a while, but once you do start to dismiss the feeling of needing them more than anything, which I completely understand, then you can get through it. Keep up with the hobbies, your education, and friends- I wish you the best luck.