Love help: She’s going away but I love her… - Help.com

Maybe you can have a long distance relationship.

It does not have to end if you don’t want it to end, but you should also think about her.
Does she want it to continue?

There are phones and there is mail… also there are buses so you can go visit her… if you really love her do not tell her or let on that you do… if you want to be with her in the future just keep in touch with her by phone and mail and visit her by bus when you can… put the emphasis on being with her, and having lots of fun with her and making her smile and laugh as much as you can… avoid making the relationship about being good friends… do not let on that you love her or that you really really like her from here on in… psychologists say that if you let a girl know that you like her too much too often too soon or tell her you love her too soon that girls lose interest there will be time for that later on if she decides to be with you… so I suggest you you really do love her that you keep in touch with her and visit her when you can and have as much fun with her as possible if you can keep this up over time there is a good chance she will open up to you more and fall in love with you… if she is the one for you I wish you luck… God Bless.

Maintain the friendship, but don’t go all psycho and cross over into stalking or harassment. See if you can get into the same university in a year or so, or see what happens in the future.

High school romance = practice romance

She knows it won’t–or shouldn’t–last. She doesn’t want to get involved with a guy when she KNOWS she’s going away . . . KNOWS she’s leaving the little tidal pool known as high school . . . and KNOWS she’s going to be fishing in the wide, wide ocean.

Just ask if you can be friends. And you can tell her, “We can be friends and go out without anything more. Everybody can use an extra friend. Come on–let’s go to ____________ and just have some fun!”

chev.jame wrote:
High school romance = practice romance

She knows it won’t–or shouldn’t–last. She doesn’t want to get involved with a guy when she KNOWS she’s going away . . . KNOWS she’s leaving the little tidal pool known as high school . . . and KNOWS she’s going to be fishing in the wide, wide ocean.

Just ask if you can be friends. And you can tell her, “We can be friends and go out without anything more. Everybody can use an extra friend. Come on–let’s go to ____________ and just have some fun!”

Some good points however I would not ask if we can be friends… if you put the thought in her mind that your are just friends it will probably always be there and it will hard for her to think of you as anything other than a friend… don’t come right out and say lets be friends if you can help it just continue the relationship as her friend and have fun… and hopefully it can develop from there…