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I have so many problems and I’m starting to feel really

stress and I can’t bread I don’t feel ok I feel like I’m gona explode

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~FlutterBy~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

It sounds like you may be experiencing an Anxiety attack.
I suggest you go to the Doctor.

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vanessasl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

what can I say if I go I don’t want them to think I’m crazy

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~FlutterBy~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

They are not going to think you are crazy. IF it is an anxiety attack, they are so common and most people will experience it in their lifetime.
Tell the Doctor exactly what you are experiencing, all symptoms, how long this has been going on for and be totally honest. They are there to help you and if you get no real assistance there, you go to another doctor.

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vanessasl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

I have so many problems and physically some time I think I can’t take it any more, I don’t know if I go

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~FlutterBy~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

Are there so many, it is overwhelming you?

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vanessasl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

yes , I don’t want to be like this, this is too much stress

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~FlutterBy~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

Do you have a doctor who you feel comfortable with?

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (33 minutes after post)

no,I have problems with my husband,he wants me out I’m sick, I have no family no were to go If I leave I don’t whant to lose my daughter , I have no money, I came with a visa and overstay and now I can’t work or leave the country until I fix my papers

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (53 minutes after post)

thank you for all your help God bless you

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~FlutterBy~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (57 minutes after post)

vanessasl wrote:
thank you for all your help God bless you

I don’t know if I have been of any help at all but I have invited someone who MAY be! Hang in there and please come back later here ok.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

yes thank you , I think I’ll go ley down and try to sleep I really don’t feel good I been feeling bad for 2 days now is to much stress I don’ want to lose my daughter and I think if a leave he is going to take her,that really hurts me alot , but thank you very much, I’ll come back .

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~FlutterBy~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (6 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Are you being abused physically or emotionally or is your daughter??

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❤Phoenix Reins❤ offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (7 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Sorry you are feeling this way my lovely. What you need to do is bring your emotional feelings under control so that you can act practically and start fighting back. You are experiencing anxiety which is quite a rational response to what you are going through. You can phone a medical helpline, if you do not feel comfortable going to the doctor and tell them that you need help suffering from anxiety and panic attacks. They will help you from there.
Here is a link that might help:
http://www.anxietyuk.org.uk/get-help/…

Next you need to get legal advice about your rights as a mother to stay in your country to se your daughter and what you can do if the marriage breaks down. They may also be able to advise you of local shelters or hostels in your area. Some legal advice is free, so google search for “free legal advice” in your area or better still, go to a citizens advice bureau. They can help you.

Try:
http://www.adviceguide.org.uk/index/y…

Good luck hun, plenty more resources on my profile page.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (7 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Look out for a Women’s Shelter at your place and ask there for help and support.
—> If you tell us the country and place where you are right now, we can find the address of a shelter next to you.

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❤Phoenix Reins❤ offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (7 hours, 39 minutes after post)

Zirbel wrote:
Look out for a Women’s Shelter at your place and ask there for help and support.
—> If you tell us the country and place where you are right now, we can find the address of a shelter next to you.

Thanks Z :) {{{HUG}}}

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (9 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Thanks N.Queen and Zirbel for helping my friend here. EGxx
I hope she comes back>

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❤Phoenix Reins❤ offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (10 hours, 39 minutes after post)

EarthGoddess wrote:
Thanks N.Queen and Zirbel for helping my friend here. EGxx
I hope she comes back>

Me too :)

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vanessasl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Ok, I really thank you all for your help and the Ideas, I’ll go to the doctor and I will look fot legal advice, and I’ll look for shelter I don’t know how but I will, I’m in Ridgely WV. but Cumberlad Md is 5 minuts from my house, he says is If leave he will send me back to Guatemala and take my daughter from me and keep everything, and now he says that I have a month to leave.

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❤Phoenix Reins❤ offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 7 minutes after post)

vanessasl wrote:
Ok, I really thank you all for your help and the Ideas, I’ll go to the doctor and I will look fot legal advice, and I’ll look for shelter I don’t know how but I will, I’m in Ridgely WV. but Cumberlad Md is 5 minuts from my house, he says is If leave he will send me back to Guatemala and take my daughter from me and keep everything, and now he says that I have a month to leave.

Best to get legal advice you can speak to Citizens advice bureau. Your her Mother I am sure you have lots of rights. Good luck :)

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 9 minutes after post)

thank you very much

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 11 minutes after post)

FCRC, Inc. (Family Crisis Resource Center)
146 Bedford Street
Cumberland, MD 21502
Office: 301-759-9246
Fax: 301-759-4934
Email: fcrc @ allconet.org
Outreach Office
Lonaconing: 301-463-4197
24-Hour Helpline: 301-759-9244
http://www.familycrc.org/

 
Shenandoah Women’s Center, Inc.
236 W. Martin Street
Martinsburg, WV 25401
(304) 263-8522
24-hour crisis Hotline (completely confidential): (304) 263-8292
Community Resource and Counseling Center: (304) 263-8522
Jefferson County Outreach office: (304) 725-7080
Morgan County Outreach office: (304) 258-1078
http://www.swcinc.org/

 
Don’t hesitate! Contact one of them! Right now!
Good luck!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 15 minutes after post)

thank you thank you thank you!

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 24 minutes after post)

You’re welcome.
Would be nice of you to inform us later in a short about the progress.

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❤Phoenix Reins❤ offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Yes please do! Were rooting for you :D

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vanessasl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 45 minutes after post)

I send them and e-mail to the first place yo send me , I really was lost and very stress I lost my apetite and I cry alot, but maybe maybe I can do something with you guys help , thank you

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❤Phoenix Reins❤ offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 46 minutes after post)

:)

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❤Phoenix Reins❤ offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Hang in there ok :)

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (15 hours, 59 minutes after post)

vanessasl wrote:
I send them and e-mail to the first place yo send me , I really was lost and very stress I lost my apetite and I cry alot, but maybe maybe I can do something with you guys help , thank you

Maybe you should try the 24-hour helpline to better explain your special case, no?

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