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I have a major problem and I really need help…

Ok so the other day my bf wasn’t sure of his wk schedule… He recently started a new job.. His wk called me when he wasn’t there at the time they had posted the following day, but being that I was at wk I couldn’t answer right away… I played his bosses vm and got ahold of my bf.. My bf said just let them know ill be there at 5:30 once u get off.. So I called back and was only able to speak to a girl employee who answered the phone… She was very rude to me, huffing and puffing cuz he wasn’t gonna b in right then and there… I was nice to her although it really made me mad… The next day(yesterday) my bf gets out from wk, he tells me he figured out which girl I spoke with. He proceeds to tell me that she’s worked there since she was of age to wk cuz she knows the owners, and basically gives me a lil history on her. Then he tells me that she says to him that his girlfriend was a real bit** when she called the other day.. How should i feel about this? Should i confront her off the clock??Please help..

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Just Gin offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (27 minutes after post)

No. Why would you? It could cause problems for your boyfriend at the job that he just started, and this random unpleasant girl’s opinion doesn’t count for anything.

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Lil Misses offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (28 minutes after post)

thats somewhat how i feel too… especially since he should be moving locations Friday or Saturday… It also kinda feels like maybe my bf wants me to get upset…

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Adios offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

why are you the one handling your bf’s work calls in the first place? and why can’t he call them back? sounds pretty immature/irresponsible to me.

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Lil Misses offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

lol he doesn’t have a phone…and his wks dumb cause they didn’t post the schedule ahead of time..

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Adios offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

ok, gotcha. i wouldn’t confront this girl if i were you, would probably just cause problems, ya know?

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Lil Misses offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

ya, i talked to my older co-worker too, and she said don’t confront her… basically id be giving into him cuz he wants me to be jealous, and i’d be giving into her too cuz she seems like an instigator…

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