Love help: I’ve been in love with this guy for 9 years now. - Help.com

wow pretty stuck. its not him that you need. its yourself. you need to be happy even without him. if your happiness counts on a guy then its nt true happiness. distract yourself by making new friends and doing fun stuff. try to keep your mind off that guy.

Does he know any of this????? if so move on dear, u’ve wasted enough time, if not try telling him, u have nothing to loose, u r unhappy anyway ;)

hey if u find a cure plz share it with me 2 :) ,, cause am bascily in the same prob … hehehe :) …. i hope the best for ya as well as for me :D bye … yet some ppl told me to go have a gf so i will forget the girl but i think i’ll brake her heart so …..

Gosh, the longest time i’ve ever suffered something like that is 7 years.^^;

First of all, do you know them well? Are you friends? If he doesn’t consider you one, then i’d suggest you start thinking over everything you /really/ want to find in someone. You may find that in reality, you may not have been completely in love. It may have just been an intense crush, that’s even more likely if he was your first ‘love’.

If you realize that, slowly, it’ll be possible to move on.

If you do know them well, and you also know they don’t like you that way at all, not to sound blunt but you should really do your best to give up on them. Seriously, unrequited love, while occasionally both pleasant and painful, is rarely worth the effort of letting it go on so long.

Trust me on that.

Maybe you could try confessing as well. It’ll take some courage, (Well, a lot of it^^; ), but once it’s all said and done, no matter what he says it will work out. If they don’t return your feeling that way, most are usually able to accept that, and, even though some remain in love, they move on. If he like you back, then even more kudos to you.^_^

I’ll be wishing you luck.^^

memories hunts me like a cat hunting a little mouse … in every girls eyes i see her eyes and they tell me to forget her ,, who am i kidding ,, as the moon glows her faces shows from time to time just to remind of what i lost…as i walk to my room i can see her walking beside me but she’s not there … so what is she doing i wonder …. what is she thinking is she thinking of me to or is she being held by arms of not mine ? …. and they ask me for forget how can i forget what was mine what is one with me .. so i wonder and wonder till my mind cant wonder no more so i fall into the darkness …. have a nice day …

you are extremely sensitive. thats an amazing thing.

I think you should definetly tell them! You have nothing to loose love wise… if you tell them and they say they dont love you.. then you can start to work on getting over it once you have accepted that there is nothing you can do. painful but then you can start working towards moving on becuase you cant change their mind where as Now when there is a possibility something COULD happen your just hanging around hoping.
And if he says YES that he is interested or something could happen.. then YAY!! and you can work on that.

being a sitting duck and not knowing is keeping you from living.. I say tell him! be brave and you never know :D

good luck xoxo