I’m a 38 year old man with no job, no car or license,
living in Mom’s house(George Costanza-like but not in the looks department), and the loneliest man on earth. The job will come. The car will come. The place of my own will come. It’s all just a temporary setback, which will be cured as soon as I can get back to work. The REAL problem is the loneliness. It seems I’ll NEVER be loved by anyone ever again. It’s slowly killing me. Loneliness not only produces emotional pain, but also real physical pain for me. 6 years now after the split with my Ex, and I’m so very lonely for a woman. It’s been long enough, I’m over her and now I want to share myself with someone. I want someone to share themselves with me as well. I know the lack of a job, a home, and transportation is seriously diminishing my chances here, but love(real love)shouldn’t require money first, ya know what I mean? When my Ex and I fell in love 17 years ago, we were broke. Poverty didn’t stop our love from growing. I am resentful that the fact of the matter is I MUST be financially sound before I can even get a second glance these days. These materialistic, selfish days. Yes, I will settle for no less than a steady flow of money for myself, it’s essential to survive. And yes, I do not EVER want to be in this position again. But whatever happened to the days of “going for it” when you see or meet someone cute enough, smart enough, and friendly enough, with an animal attraction to each other to boot in the chemistry department? The Media these days seems void of any movies, T.V. shows, “Reality” shows and music that glorify LOVE for LOVE’S SAKE. Almost everything seems now to have a message of “If he don’t bring home the ‘Benjamins’ he ain’t worth ****”, and that kind of attitude. Before I go on a mis-guided “envious of rich people” smear campaign , I will check myself and say that yes, it’s great to offer a loved one security and presents, I WANT to be the guy who can do that. BUT, a poor guy doesn’t have a chance to even have a chance anymore, because the youth and young adults of today, especially women, are being brainwashed into thinking if the guy doesn’t show immediate signs of major cash flow(I.E. expensive clothes, expensive jewlery, expensive hair, at expensive clubs and meeting places), THEY AREN’T WORTH EVEN RETURNING A SMILE. Not even a polite “No Thanks”. They are being trained not only to say no, but to snobbishly “Dis” them as well, for if they don’t have the “cheese”, there must be something almost disease-like about them, so a rude comment must be included instead of a simple “Thanks but no thanks”. I must be getting old. Anyways thanks for letting me blow off steam, and maybe someone can give me some feedback on how to meet nice, interesting, and pretty women while being TEMPORARILY broke. It would be much appreciated.
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