I guess this is more of an opion poll or rather I just don’t know how to handle what I am about to post.
My son recently got married on a friday night, my sisters son graduated on the thursday before. When I found out that he was graduating the day before the wedding I spoke with the bride to change rehearsal dinner which was changed to the Wednesday before. My sister immediately starts asking if my son would be at her son’s graduation. I told her i did not know because they would have to sit up for the wedding and also pack for their honeymoon plus my son had to work til 5 or 6 the Thursday before the wedding. As it turned out my mom and dad called my son begging him to come to graduation which hurt my son since his big day was also coming up. To finish up my son did not get through in time for graduation and wouldn/t have finished if my other son had not came after graduation to help finish siting up tables and what not. To boot it all my sister only came to wedding and did not stay for reception. She also sent a text to my son on his wedding day saying “i am happy for your wedding but my feelings are hurt because you did not come to graduation” I have since spoken with my father and told him he should not have called my son. he says he didn’t want a rift in the family, I said dad I think yall have created one….. I am hurt and disappointed in my parents and sister. What is your thoughts on this….feel free to as questions.?
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