friends help: If a guy blocks you on facebook, it is a sure sign that he has issues to work with and that you have to leave him alone right.

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If a guy blocks you on facebook, it is a sure sign that he has issues to work with and that you have to leave him alone right.

If you confront him with an email and he does not respond, but tries to talk when you bump into one another, then he’s just trying to be nice when upfront.
but what the hell is this? He tries to find social network sites that show if someone has checked your profile, so that all your mutual friends who knew the situation are curious once more. He then dedicates a profile picture of a girl looking at him as he looks at her as if ot say caught you. He befriends one of your best friends and lies about how they meet and when confronted doesn’t respond. It turns out that when he did block you, this other dude you knew for four years also blocked you at the same time and when you asked about it to him through an email (we ended college and I didn’t have the four year guys numbers) you find out that the first guy has been talking about that email as if it was his.

What is this mess?

This open post was written 1 year, 11 months ago | V/U/S: 1,919, 7, 5 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post

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A-Cortex 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Soooo confusing. Holy moly.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

No, I decided to ignore it. If it’s good on his part, he’ll find a way to me. If not, I am not putting myself down for him again. I expressed myself in two emails that left them more confused, at best, or a joke, at worse. Therefore, he or his friend or fate needs to step in.
Writing it cleared it out. More opinions hopefully to reinforce it.

And holy moly has been my thoughts too.

Faith&Reason 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (23 minutes after post)

i don’t think those facebook trackers actually work. if so, i’m in trouble :) haha…anyway, we all have better things to do than to try reaching out to people who don’t want to talk to us. it’s embarrassing for you. save face by leaving him alone and focusing on someone who understands your worth. who cares if he’s nice “sometimes”.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 11 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Faith&Reason wrote:
i don’t think those facebook trackers actually work. if so, i’m in trouble :) haha…anyway, we all have better things to do than to try reaching out to people who don’t want to talk to us. it’s embarrassing for you. save face by leaving him alone and focusing on someone who understands your worth. who cares if he’s nice “sometimes”.

I agree. I did more than enough by even letting them know I knew I was blocked. If they were not immature boys, they would have atleast talked to me or asked me. If not, it’s best to assume the worse…not bc they are “bad” but because their actions are bad for you. Its really important for girls to respect themselves bc college boys…are boys. Thanks!

Dr. Ozy 39 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (9 hours, 54 minutes after post)

it is a sure sign that he has issues to work with and that you have to leave him (/them?) alone. :P

whatever is going on here, it is nonsense. you’re probably better off if you stay clear of it.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 11 months ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

Ozylogist wrote:
it is a sure sign that he has issues to work with and that you have to leave him (/them?) alone. :P

whatever is going on here, it is nonsense. you’re probably better off if you stay clear of it.

Agreed! I’m nosy but this is just weird…

katherine.dalzel #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

sounds like a screwball.

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