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I have a friend in this situation , please help!

She was in a bad marrige and was stupid. She posted an ad on Craigslist. She was 41 and met a man of 22. He was from the middle east. She tried to break the relationship , but he won’t let her. He has gained access to her emails, and followed her. If she does not respond to one of his calls she fears he will come to her house. has anyone ever been in a situation similar to that?

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~ Trust Life ~ offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (3 minutes after post)

Get help from POLICE.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (15 minutes after post)

yes, I was stalked once.they found out where I lived. but then I moved to the Florida. so, just tell your friend to move.

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2 years ago (57 minutes after post)

This is typical of what happens when people marry, outside their ethnic background.

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mumstheword offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

Take a look at my post for some ideas of what your friend can do.

Most importantly report it.

How did this person access her emails?

Get her to change all passwords, create a new email account and actively BLOCK him immediately.

Is your friend still in this marriage?

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mumstheword offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

Could you just clarify please… was this 22 yr old an affair outside of a bad marriage or is she actually married to the 22 yr old?

To me, the post suggests the former but I could be mistaken.

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stellabenton8 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (6 hours, 53 minutes after post)

No, she is in the marrige, but went on a few dates with the 33 yr old. I warned her. I guess he guessed or was given her password. I was pretty concerned.

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mumstheword offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years ago (17 hours, 26 minutes after post)

33 ?

There is some confusion here :o)

I notice you’ve been in a similar situation yourself?

There are some useful links on my post and further help there for you to pass on to her.

http://help.com/post/475347-are-you-b…

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