girl help: i met this girl and she seems cool except she’s real shy - Help.com

Dude, if there is no attraction on a physical level, your wasting your time on this girl!

If there is no passion in a kiss, forget it!

I once had this chick who was all about me. We worked together. All of her friends kept pushing for us to be together. She wasnt ugly by most means, I just wasnt attracted to her. She was cool as hell though. I dug talking to her. Even hanging out (with friends) was cool. Other than there being no attraction physically, I could see no reason not to be with her. So I told myself that I was being superficial and to get over it. She was a cool chick! She and I dated for a month. When we kissed, there was no passion. I wasnt the only one who felt that either. When we stopped dating, it was mutual. We remained friends, which is where we should have stayed in the first place!

Point to the story is this, physical attraction has to be present. If your not attracted to her, your just spining your wheels. Going nowhere!

I agree. If you aren’t into her looks, you are probably wasting your time - although I will say that it is possible to teach better kissing techniques. Don’t actually criticize and say they are doing something wrong. Everyone have different likes and dislikes, so just launch into explaining “I like it best when you do this…” And point out the things you like. If a person likes you, they’ll be happy to adapt to you.

awww well, no one can be a good kisser! it takes time to get it right. and girls are sensitive about their looks so, don’t make a big issue out of that. she’ll get upset, trust me, if she ever heard you or any guy say that about her. i’m sure she’s trying. but, if your seriously not into her and you just like her cause you think she kinda likes you, then you are wasting your time. best of luck! :o)

if the acne is an issue to you then its probably not going to work.
by all means give it a chance if the acne doesn’t bother you, but its enough for you to mention it so i think it is a issue to you. “she’s really nice and she seems to like me …. what should i do ?”
the question is; do YOU like her?

it all right dude! go out with her and have a great time! if she likes u and u like her that is all what matters besides if u dump her she will be very very sad.