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Hey guys, I like this other guy who works in this store,

but everytime I see him I dont wanna disturb him during work, and I never seem to run into him in other places. I think he kinda likes me too. What should I do that won’t seem to wierd or pushy?

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 2 years, 9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Why don’t you see if the two of you can share a lunch hour? Or a cofee break even? It could give you a chance to talk and maybe develope a friendship? Ultimately, I think you just need to extend an invitation and run the risk of rejection. He might say yes, and even if it’s a “no” it’s not as if you risk losing a relationship that never even existed to begin with.

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Lynx_19 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (16 minutes after post)

lol good point
thnx

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dzhu122 offline Unverified User #
Bronx, NY, US | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

Mmmm, talk to him a bit more often or say, call me at *your number* and then say *we can talk later*

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Lynx_19 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

isnt that kind of….forward and pushy? or men dont take it that way?

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C.M.Theisen offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

Men are usually flattered by women who show interest in them, even in cases where they aren’t actually interested in a relationship. You don’t have to worry about hurting his feelings or making him feel pressured. There will only be a problem if you continue to bother him after he tells you that he isn’t interested.

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Lynx_19 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

so u still suggest the coffee or lunch break? what if im kinda shy?

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dzhu122 offline Unverified User #
Bronx, NY, US | 2 years, 9 months ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

If you are shy, ask him for his number.Then you can call him when you get home.

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roxy31162 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (4 hours, 47 minutes after post)

you can notice if he is interested. if he takes little breaks off to talk to you that means you can disturb him if you want. if he is talking to you for a long time tell him to get back to work so he can see you arnt just intersted in spending time with him but you really do care about him.
enjoy!!

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letitbe23 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

Don’t be yourself, be an exaggerated version of 5 people cooler than you. that always works on tv.

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