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firefishie
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what do I do?

Do I go to a 8th grade graduation because some of my friends are graduating and because this really nice person is going? Or do I not go because my ex that smashed my heart into peices and his friends that made me always feel self conscious are going?

This open post was written 1 year, 11 months ago | V/U/S: 335, 4, 5 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post


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♥Havefunatlife♥ offline Verified User (4 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I would go and just show him you don’t care that he smashed your heart! You would be showing him and his friends that it doesn’t matter. If you want to go to the 8th grade graduation, I would go. Who cares about those other people! Have fun and show it! Let him see it and I’m sure it will bother him in some way. Screw him =)

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SeesaChic offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (27 minutes after post)

You go because you’re friends are there and you’re trying to be supportive. Ignore him.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

ignore your dumb ex. enjoy ourself with your nice friend and pretend you don’t even see your ex at all. he doesn’t deserve your attention. :)

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Sparrowhawk offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

I agree with the above replies. Go to support your friends, and try not to think about your ex. Surround yourself with friends and people who care about you and show your ex just how strong, confident and beautiful you are.
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